My boyfriend has pulled away from me, he's become distant with me due to work stress. He works full-time and during his free time during evenings, he looks for a new job. He has had few interviews, some near my city but he has not been accepted anywhere yet. He's still waiting for some answers. He is unhappy with his current job and hates it. he said hes not feeling good now. Last month I became very needy of him, which made him upset. I then realised that it makes things works talking about the relationship and blaming him he does not care. I am worrying about this and I am sad worrying that he is loosing interest in our relationship as he has not been attentive and I don't hear from him much? I am happy as he texted me a couple of days ago but today I asked him if we could meet up as we live an hour away from each other. He said that weekend he goes home to see his family. I asked him about the weekend after and he replied with " I don't know, we will see". What can I do?
2007-03-23 23:56:50 · 5 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest you to give him time and space.The best thing you can do is move on.Do yourself a favour.He is just not that into you.He is not ready for a commited relationship.Career is his major priority.So,you should just let him go.Its not worth all your time,energy and emotions.I know its hard.But,you can save yourself a lot of grief by getting over him.
All his focus is on his career right now.And i am not sure if he will pay any attention to you in near future.He really has some career issues and he has to deal with it seriously.You better keep going with your life by just walking past him.
Dont worry,if the two of you are meant to be,it will be.But for now its not worth your wait and concerns while he doesnt even care.
You have to consider your precious life.You will succeed.
2007-03-24 01:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look girlfriend, dont be so eager to get him to be communicative. u have to allow him some time and space. it is certainly depression. i will advice u to live him alone for a while.if heloves u he will understand ur need and come to u.
if u keep pestering him to come to u, he will fel pressured and will even withdraw more.
just live him alone for a while, if he is for u, it wil improve once the job thing is sorted out. if not, u just have to take him as he comes.
guys are unpredictable.
2007-03-24 07:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by lilies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time to sort things out. He may have a lot going on which you do not know about. If he loves you, he will come back to you, and if not, there is nothing you can do anyway.
2007-03-24 07:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him some time. If you are really chasing him, he might get resentful. Either its meant to be or not. Maybe the space will give him some time to think and miss you.
2007-03-24 07:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by jms62394 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time , and if he find new job and change try to talk
2007-03-24 07:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by DREAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋