I just found a ritualist goth book of all kinds of gothic materials including just about anything you would want to know. The problem is I dont know how to handel it, she is completely going down a path that none of u can follow and right now I need opinions on how I should handel the situation because I am her brother and not `cared about her feelings toward me but I want to help her, its not something that my mom would like, or condone. Its just something that really makes me want to throw up because its such a shock.
2007-03-23 23:55:30 · 10 answers · asked by slasher42424 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Have a heart to heart talk with your sister. Tell her that you care about her and are worried about her. I think it will mean a lot to her just to hear her brother say that to her.
2007-03-24 03:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I imagine there is something in her life in which she feels she has no control over. I would guess reading such things give her some sense of empowerment.
Find out what's bothering her, and help her work out those problems through other means.
2007-03-24 07:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by bobguajardo2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say what you found!. i wouldn't worry. there is such a stigma about "being goth". so they wear dark cloths and most listen to music a lot of people don't like. As long as she is healthy and mentally stable then she will be ok.
2007-03-24 07:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have tonnes of gothic books
you do know its history right?
like the buildings and stuff
but yeah i have some pretty scary books like that
maybe she has them to read with her firends for a laugh or she has chosen to go down that path like many others, its not that bad, you should try it sometime
and dont treat her like an outcast if she does go "goth"
2007-03-24 07:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by oi-scotty-boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel,because it does matter to you like in a hole. We came up from growths so fast until a problem occur. Now is the time to up in mama place to feedback. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 07:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by James S55$$ where I give you ME. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of us that "find" something when snooping get shocked so why are you? Its not your place to deal with this matter but your mothers. Or you could just confess to your sister that you were snooping and found her things and ask her what it is all about and get her to tell you about it so you can understand where she stands in it.
2007-03-24 08:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and have her get professional help...it is trouble..and she will be sorry and so will the whole family...someday...
2007-03-24 08:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your sister. ( I don't know how long you can keep this from your mom, but, if I was her, I'd want to know so I could help my daughter.)
2007-03-24 07:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should try and talk with her and explain how it is that you feel .
2007-03-24 06:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by bk b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her to a counsellor.
2007-03-24 06:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by Iceman҂ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋