My wife is from Israel, her family lives here, my family lives in Monterrey, Mexico, i'm an only child, my parents are getting old,
I want to go there and just be there for them, but the economy of Mexico, and the insecurity hold me back.
To drag my wife away from her family makes me feel guilty.
2007-03-23 23:51:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yeah sure... be a filial son.
2007-03-23 23:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Iceman҂ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something you two should talk over. You have been with her family in Israel for some time, it sounds like. Your parents are getting older and you would like to be there for them and I think that is great. Your wife should be understanding about this. Make sure she will still get to go and visit her family. Going to Mexico to see your parents for a while doesn't mean you'll stay there forever. Sometimes we have to go where our partner needs to be. It should be a mutual thing. You go where you need to be at the time. Don't feel guilty, just explain your feelings and your reasons for wanting to go and I think she will understand and support you in your decision.
2007-03-24 10:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do your parents say? Are they begging you to come to Mexico? You also have to take your wife's opinion into consideration. There are a lot of factors here. I don't think you can make a decision from YA.
2007-03-24 07:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can support your family by visiting them as often as you can,they will see your love for them.Its not wise to move your wife to Mexico.Financially you are both doing just fine,if you move back to Mexico it may cause a marriage breakup.How do your wife feel about this anyway.This would be very selfish of you to do this,she also loves her family.God Bless
2007-03-24 07:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by renee_29@yahoo.ca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How does your wife feel about moving? Would it be possible to move just until your parents pass on? If not, maybe you can just visit your parents more often.
2007-03-24 07:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen if you want your life without your parents then please stay in israel but if u want your life to be funfilled, glorious and happy with your wife then go to mexico. convince your wife also tell her this answer of mine.
2007-03-24 07:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋