I have been living with my girlfriend for almost a year now but we only recently got another housemate to help with the rent. My girlfriend enjoys teasing him by kissing me a lot infront of him and then telling him to do certain chores around the house if he wants to see more. I feel a little bad turning this guy into our maid but I am loving the attention my girlfriend is giving me. Is this evil of me?
2007-03-23 23:46:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I noticed that he sits out side our bedroom door whenever we make love. I think its kind of cute in a sad kind of way.
2007-03-24 00:00:33 · update #1
not evil at all!!! enjoy it all you can, and want, wish i was there to sit outside, be your maid, be your lil lap dog!!!! whatever you wanted really!!! xxxxxx
2007-03-24 14:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by fear of the dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to go against the grain here.
Are you happy using your sexuality as a way of manipulation?
This guy is an idiot if he is putting up with it. To much thinking with his dick and a complete and utter lack of self respect.
But that doesn't mean that the two of you are not guilty of using your sexuality, something that should be a private and sensual thing, to gain power over another person.
It makes me feel really sad that you are objectifying yourselves for gain.
Do you think this behaviour is acceptable, deep in your heart?
You are using power to control someone.
If a man was using his sexual power against a women, it would be slammed down by the female, and male, members of this site so quickly. And quite rightly so.
but if a woman does it no one speaks up.
Where is your respect?
So to answer your Q. no it is not evil. But it is wrong. Very wrong.
2007-03-24 00:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is doing your housework and paying you rent?? Lap it up! Although, this could get nasty so maybe you should sit down with your girlfriend and lay down some ground rules as to how far you will go with him. That way you both feel secure knowing that it will stop at a certain point. Beware though, this may end in tears!
2007-03-24 00:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know your new housemate??? if its an old friend then Im sure they see it as a bit of fun and I would just enjoy it.
If you are only just getting to know this housemate I would be careful.....if its just a bit of fun you and your gilfriend are having does the housemate see it the same way??? it could get out of hand.
2007-03-24 00:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Hoppity-ES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all fun and games until he gives her the Wang. I suggest you keep it behind closed doors. Also, has it dawned on you that your gf might love the attention she is getting from the housemate??
2007-03-23 23:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Paul W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's willing to do the chores in order to watch you, that's his business. If you are willing to put on a show in exchange for chores, that's your business.
If you still feel he's being short-changed, do "more" with your girlfriend.
2007-03-23 23:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do enjoy the attention from the girlfriend so why even worry about housemate
2007-03-23 23:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by happydial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sick, personally. Most women have a strong need to feel wanted or to feel in control, and this seems like a typical case. Poor guy!
2007-03-24 00:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by ~Crystal~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the teasing continues when you're not around aswell.
2007-03-23 23:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by stoutseun69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sounds like everyone involved is happy. Guess you got it going on. Where did you find your roomate?
2007-03-23 23:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋