we had a bad fight
she said her heart is blocked off
said doesn't want sex with me
doen't want any guys right now
answers please
2007-03-23 23:20:06 · 14 answers · asked by dave m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
said she can't have anyone right now
2007-03-23 23:33:00 · update #1
She sounds like she's been hurt. If you really care about her you should give her what she needs. She may need some space
2007-03-31 22:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just can't sit here and listen to the fact that these WOman are being so dag on insesitive about when Woman get hurt, It is really making me anfry to be quite honest,
See there is a saying that when a womans heart is closed it can't be reopened, But God told me that the same energy to closing your hearrt can re reopened, I know that Gettingg into fights it isn't the best solution, Yea she is hurt and angry right now, and she is bitter, because she said that she didn't Guys, she didn't just say you, you need to give her space yea because you don't want to keep putting gasoline on the fire, it will keeo igniting, and maybe you need to call her and tell that when she is ready and willing to call you later, but you cannot rush her because woman need time, we are easily hurt and when they get hurt they close thier hearts so that no one esle can hurt them, number two thats why yall shouldn' be having sex because of stuff like this, you never know who your real mate it, so stop having Sex, you might even gett freakin aids.
I just can't see how these woman are saying she will get over it like we have no feelings. I mean dag.
is there a way that I can talk to her, would it somehow be possible to give her my address??
skyizdalimit2007@YAHOO,COM
AND PLEASE no nasty comments
2007-03-31 22:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want any guys right now translates to she doesn't want you right now.
But don't worry, she's just angry. She'll get over it.
Either that or she's ready to dump you.
Wait a few days and talk to her again. If she gets over this then talk it out peacefully, try not to have fights like this again.
But if she wants to break up then move on, plenty of other fishes in the sea.
2007-03-23 23:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is probably just going through a tough time and needs a little bit of space. give her some space but not to much or she'll think you're trying to get rid of her. talk things out with her and explain that you'll always be there when she needs you. tell her if she needs some space you will be there when she's ready to come back.
2007-03-31 20:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't have sex before marriage.....it's sinful.......and a relationship shouldn't be about sex.....how come you mention sex as if it was the only thing going in the relationship, what about spending quality time with her, you better treat her good cause you hurt her feelings, if you think she's confused about herself you move on and tell her you're moving on because you feel she's too immature to date you because you don't want her playing games with you leading you on to date her and then she lets you off the hook like this
2007-03-31 20:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is saying things like that and keeping to it -it means one of two things:
Either she has no deep feelings for you and probably never will have. or,
She is so full of herself that she has no room for you.
Neither of these has any hope for a stable relationship and it suggests that if you stay together it will only lead to you both getting hurt.
Time to sit down with her and see if she can have a rational conversation about it and change her attitudes.
If she cannot then I would suggest for both your sakes that you walk away!
2007-03-23 23:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect her to have sex with you after a bad figt. Give her some personal space and be patient.
2007-03-31 22:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the fight was about but you really pissed her off. Step back, but make sure you let her know that you will be available when she is ready.
2007-03-31 16:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by someadvice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she just wanted to tell you to give her space... its either she's not ready to talk yet or she wanted to think things over..
2007-03-31 22:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by machooletz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the doctor and the mendour....let no ego or complex come to you when you really want her.....hands on your ears legs crossed...1,2,3...........
2007-03-31 20:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by pkrishnan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋