Met a girl online, lives locally. She keeps writing me, but never ask anything about me, just talks about her life. She's 10 years younger, so I figure an element of being a kid, but it's striking me that she has no interest in me. I havn't written her back for a couple days,and I don't think I willl or should. What do you think?
2007-03-23 23:06:35 · 14 answers · asked by guy o 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may not know if it is important to ask about you or even then she may not know what to ask!! After all she's still a kid...Help her grow up...
2007-03-23 23:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just using you to vent. If you want to go for it do it quick. You don't want to invest too much time into her only to find out she's only interested in one-way conversations.
If a girl is just using a guy's time for attention, it's just as bad as a guy using a girl for sex. But if both parties get what they want out of it then it's a fair deal.
So #1 know what you want, #2 don't invest to much into it unless you start making progress toward whatever you were looking for. If you're looking for relationship don't mis-read friendship as progress. Women are very good at playing in the gray area to lead you on.
2007-03-24 06:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is waiting for you to volunteer information, like she is. If she doesn't know you very well yet she might not want to encroach on your boundaries. Or she might feel silly asking questions she feels she'll probably learn in the natural course of a relationship (or friendship). But if you get the vibe that she is just self-involved, you could be right. If you don't want to get to know her there's probably no harm done, but you are interested in her based on what she says, you might not want to jump to conclusions.
2007-03-24 06:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by SomeGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first- she has to know you better to strike interest,
second- at least she is upfront on whom and what she is. On the internet you can be anyone you want to be, at least she is being truthful. I'd say look deeper or let the relationship kinda Fade away
2007-03-24 06:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by supordude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be nervous about asking you questions and sometimes when woman get nervous some of us ramble. I would definitely queue in on what she is talking about, for example is she talking on and on about how great she is or is she just giving you information to help get to know her better.
2007-03-24 06:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Cerise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance. She may also want to know you better by showing or telling you how she is.How long have you been online buddies? Depends also.
2007-03-24 06:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him another chance,and it is so better that you write for her again and tell her what do you want.
2007-03-24 06:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by harry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back to her, give yourself the benefit of the dark, have nothing to lose.
2007-03-24 06:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, give her a chance of friendship first. maybe she just needs someone to confide in and she may not have feelings for you just yet.
2007-03-24 06:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by tikuz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you dude. Could be she doesn't want to pry and is waiting for you to open up.
2007-03-24 06:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by Law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋