2007-03-23 22:48:25 · 8 answers · asked by xtrahotcinnabunz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. You have to make a conscious decision NOT to let the past interfere with your future happiness. It is so hard to do but consider the options:
- Be single with all the emotional baggage from the past
- Dump all the baggage on your current (or future) boyfriend and ruin the relationship, which will help perpetuate the self-fulfilling cycle
- Decide to deal with the baggage yourself. Give BF a chance and appreciate him for who he is and not through the lens of previous relationships
Wish you the best.
2007-03-23 22:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's soooo hard. you just got to give every new person a clean slate and hope they aren't like the others. it is very hard though. I was cheated on all my life. now I've been with a man for a year now that treats me like gold and in the back of my mind I still worry he'll cheat, even though I KNOW he won't?? the past can ruin you. just try to trust the new ones and hopefully a good one will come around :)
2007-03-23 22:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by princess1226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what this sounds like. I actually are transforming into back with the guy who i became interior the rocky, severe courting with, and he's working confusing to become a greater effective guy or woman. i had to end issues for sturdy although until now he got here to visit and apologized and admitted how he felt approximately me. in any case, it is the rockiness that inspite of the soreness can supply the courting some exhilaration or you sense delight in being the only guy or woman they are in a position to anticipate and you will look after them. it does not paintings, inspite of the undeniable fact that it is so confusing to enable flow of. on an identical time, even now whilst he's getting greater effective i nonetheless have little have faith themes with him. i'm waiting it out and optimistically they are going to flow away, it is gotten greater effective. yet you should nicely known, that inspite of your ex as he became, issues does not have been ok. think of approximately your ex way interior the destiny, because of the fact the daddy of your infants...terrible suitable? is that who you will possibly choose them to study to? what if he did an identical component of you that he did to his spouse now? in line with possibility you like a while removed from Mr staggering so as to paintings issues out and rather relish/pass over Mr staggering. if he's incredibly Mr staggering he will provide you time. sturdy success!
2016-12-08 10:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by messenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By time
2007-03-23 22:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by killer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a choice
The best thing to do is slow down and keep your eyes open. Wide open.
2007-03-23 22:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a lot of time. you have to not hold it to this man . you have to forget all the others. this is a new start in life for you trust him.
2007-03-23 22:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant trust him just leave him. If your inside feels like that you want to trust him, then just pray he is worth it.
2007-03-23 22:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest with him.
2007-03-23 22:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋