I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.
2007-03-23 22:41:50 · 10 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I'll just see you around." Then I left. I'm wondering what should I do for her birthday next week? I'm going to ask her friends what kind of gifts she likes. I think I probaly should just tell her happy birthday to show that I remember. Maybe I shouldn't even say that. After that, I'm forgetting all about her because ain't nothin ever gon change. I've been hurt before by crushes every single time, but this is the first time I've fallen in love. I learned something though; just because a girl seems like she has everything I've been looking for, doesn't mean she's the girl for me. She could change up anytime. I'm never leaving myself open for getting hurt by falling in love again, because I'm not giving her my heart until she earns it. This is the first time I've fallen in love but it's the last straw, the last time I try to be someone for somebody. Like my names says from this song, I got this Icebox where my heart used to be.
2007-03-23 22:42:24 · update #1
see? one girl hurts some guy n they turn into what u are now! what if the perfect girl came along? you wouldn't notice her because u are too busy dwelling in the past. she hurt you, we understand that, n i am sorry some girls are bitches but thats no need to turn heartless.
As for her birthday don't even worry about her. if she has been giving u the cold shoulder then why should u go out of ur way to do something nice for her.
get over her n move on i'm sure theres plenty of girls who would give anything to own a heart thats so loyal as urs.
2007-03-23 22:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No birthday gift!!! Get with some friends go out have some fun, go somewhere new, where you know you will not see her. It clear the she is over you and as far as being friends again more than likely that will not happen, sorry. Try to meet someone new. Breaking up is hard and pain full. but life goes on.
2007-03-23 22:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by sue h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club.
2007-03-24 02:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is going to bless you with the most precious wife you could ever imagine.Watch and see. I could feel something just reading this.There is something wonderful in store for you!
2007-03-23 22:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty more fish in the sea brother.
Actually, although I don't know the whole story, she sounds like a *****.
2007-03-23 22:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by guy o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR love is one - sided.
Concentrate on other imporrant things for some time...if she loves you...she would revert else you change direction.
2007-03-23 22:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by KISH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she kept her back turned towards me.but i only wanted us to be friends again.these are the two important points,thank you.
2007-03-23 22:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long.. Without reading I tell you this.. GOOD!! don't fall in love again..
2007-03-23 22:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not the answer, its the problem.
2007-03-23 22:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by "GoSANE" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what we all say
2007-03-23 22:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋