Latley almost every single night, or day when i sleep/nap...i have dreams about my ex boyfriends. Me and my current boyfriend have been together for over a year now and we have a 1 yr old son together...I cannot help these dreams and dont know waht they mean!
2007-03-23 22:31:57 · 7 answers · asked by LostInTheCrowd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your dreams are your subconcious mind's way of dealing with things.
This could mean you're having trouble with your new role as mother and being committed to only one person (worries of a loss of freedom) or they could be worries about what you might be missing.... or they could be a less direct interpretation. You should not feel guilty about your mind trying to resolve issues.
If you are truly worried about the dreams try to figure out what they mean by meditating (not on the dream, just free association).
2007-03-23 22:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dreaming about your 'ex-boyfriends' because of 'something going on in your current relationship' ... I don't know if that is a 'good thing' or a 'bad thing' so you'll have to 'decide' that for yourself. I will give you a few questions to ask yourself ... it should be 'obvious' which are the 'good' and which are the 'bad' and then you'll know 'what to do.'
1. Are you 'totally in love with your current boyfriend'?
2. Is he a 'good father' to your son?
3. Are you feeling 'ignored' or 'underappreciated' by him?
4. When you dream of your 'ex's' are they 'being better than your current boyfriend, or 'worse'?
2007-03-24 05:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
2007-03-24 05:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by nadia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some would say you are afraid your current b'f will not commit to you and your mind is using your past to tell you.
Do not overromanticize the situation. It has nothing to do with still being in love with the ex. Maybe your relationship now is undergoing some changes that your previous one did and your mind does not want to see your fear that things are changing. We always try to hide in our own minds.
2007-03-24 05:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by mysti_gal11 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well its ur inner mind the unconciouss issues.. well i've been divorced for 1 yr now & still dreaming abt my ex!!
2007-03-24 05:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes we dream about the "forbidden fruit" even if it's not what we want in reality. I've dreamt about exes before, even though I wanted nothing more to do with them. :)
2007-03-24 05:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If its bothering you, I suggest to see a councellor to help you understand these emotions and find a way to overcome this problem..they will help you effectively....you will feel much better and have a better understanding...
2007-03-24 05:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋