how to forgot someone or being indifferent to someone whom you considered as special and who too acted as if you are very special for him at one time.. i know as time passes things change n people change... i really want to be indifferent to that person and do not want to feel bad by his flirtings/advances with other girls..... but at times it just hurts...!!!!! will the best solution be to just ignore him and his mails, texts for sometime..till i get totally over.. kindly suggest...the problem is we are friends and now only i have realized that it is his nature to treat every new girl meets with very very special care n attention...
2007-03-23 22:24:00 · 9 answers · asked by hi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start from divertin ur attention to better things in ur life like ur family ur parents ur frnds music movies live life as if theres no tommorrow dont try to think abt tht person who doesnt feel the same for u is he so good or special tht u have to constantly rmember him try to focus babes to better thing s in ur life set out ur priorties nd fulfill ur goals nd if do all said above u wont hav time to think abt neone nd nothing can bother make ur self so strong tht nothing shd bother u
2007-03-23 22:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that you can't be his friend right now because its just too painful just let him know how you feel. maybe the time apart is what you both need. but if you can handle being his friend than do so. all i know is when i stop dating a guy i have to take a step back from being his freind just till i get my feelings back on track because its very difficult especially if that person has moved on and tells you about it.
2007-03-23 22:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by sexy_n_chicago 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a big mean jerk to a girl when I found out she was chubby.
For months I spent time talking to her online and made her feel like we were close friends.
Even after we met and I treated her badly she still tried tobe my online friend.
Fianlly she woke up , lost weight and now she's hot and hates my guts.
Instead of clinging to bad guys like me you should move on , be happy and not dwell or bother with us at all.
2007-03-23 22:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, get over him. i know its hard, i've been in your shoes. he's nice to every new girl but once he gets sick of u, he changes...true, it hurts alot but trust me it gets betta with each passing day. i remained friends with the guy and had to swallow my hurt each time i see him with other girls but tell yourself he aint worth it. like in your case, he continued messaging me etc but i pretended nothing's wrong. trust me, the more he sees you're indifferent, the more intrigued he becomes. when i finally moved on and he saw me happy with someone else, he lost it :) its been over 10 years and we're both married and in our late twenties but he still asks about me to anyone who'll listen and says if only he didn't treat me dat way before ;) how do i know? we still have the same friends and when i bumped into him recently, he just stood and looked like he was going to cry while i walked away smiling...
2007-03-23 22:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by sexxxy_sabs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard i know. my ex and i split just over a year ago, together for 4.5 years. he was and i think still is the luv of my life. found out bout 4 months ago his 18yr old mole is pregnant, just found out today they are now engaged. dont quite know what i ever did to deserve this much pain. but i do know its very important to move on asap. meet a new guy, develop feelings for a new guy, and im sure he will leave your mind. i hope it happens to me soon! good luck
2007-03-23 22:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by shoegal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stable - "in simple terms the stable Die youthful" - Billy Joel undesirable - "undesirable Motor Scooter" - Montrose the two - "stable instances undesirable instances" - Led Zeppelin detached - "i don't Care Anymore" - Phil Collins "Oh nicely" - Fleetwood Mac "Que Sera Sera" - Doris Day
2016-12-19 12:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE HIM ...........
try telling him how u feel and wat u feel abt him......
i he still acts like that!!
its time u should be on ur own ....
maybe u deserve somepne else
someone special/.......
he isnt lucky!!!!!!
dont ignore all of the sudden .
back up slowly..........
and once u do
dont EVER turn back tohim again
2007-03-23 22:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by ~~mruthyu~~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Genuinely not care about the person, don't even give a damn because they won't ever about you.
2007-03-23 22:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree
2007-03-23 22:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋