Me and my parter were going through some ruff times and when everything was back to normal i decided to put a little twist in our relationship. I let him have sex with one of my best friends......
Is this wierd?
2007-03-23 22:16:52 · 43 answers · asked by LostInTheCrowd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not so much weird as self destructive. You have put a time bomb into your relationship which will go off fairly soon. It is a good way to have set up a self fulfilling prophecy to end the relationship. My ex wife allowed the same and it and of course other things led to the end of the relationship. Yes it can be fixed, but not by having an open relationship. The way to fix this is to close off your relationship to others and dedicate yourselves to each other.
2007-03-23 22:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by higg1966 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you have just given him permission to sleep with others. It gives him a blank check to go out and shop for a new girlfriend. This relationship is doomed. I hope that you get out as soon as you can because, this will not turn out in a good way. He will leave you for another woman, or you'll get tired of him cheating on you, and he will be happy to be rid of you. I wish you had sought advice prior to this twist. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-03-23 22:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now it depends on how you and your partner really feel about it. Would it bother you if he wanted to do it again, or all the time? Does he think you will let him do this often? I have had some experience in this, and it did not end up going well. It turned out that the one I was with, was only trying to make her cheating OK.
2007-03-23 22:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by forestgleaner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great as long as it didn't make you think any different about your BF or GF. Sex is an activity too many people hold it as more. Just make sure if or when it becomes 3 lay the ground rules out in advance and make sure its always with someone you don't know.
2007-03-23 22:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by ThePleasurePlayground.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I guess I could see bringing in a 3rd person for a "twist"...but your best friend?!?!? Are you out of your mind? I would NEVER invite a best friend even though I am very sexually open... hun you have some issues!
2007-03-23 22:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by batgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely. My x says I would cross the line to have sex with her friends and she is my x. You got hard life with this guy if you serious. Boy I hope you guys are just fooling around and there no feelings involved.
2007-03-23 22:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird. Depend what do you want from life. I had also moment like this in my life but now I'm getting married and change a lot my life. All I want one person next to me.
2007-03-23 22:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wierd, according to my point of view.
Do you want to be a true partner, or just hanging around with him only for pleasure?
2007-03-23 22:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by wodkx2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's chaos and most relationships don't get better for it. You have given him the idea that sex with someone else is ok
2007-03-23 22:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by mundo808 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl your in such big big messs!!!!!how could you confront him for
cheating if you give him permision and idea thats okey with you
for him get sex to anyone specially with yur friends!its not a healthy way of saying you trust him!coz you can never trust him,for your friend who agree to do it shes probbly more insane than you! for your guy!hes totally lucky
2007-03-23 22:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by vash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋