Whats wrong with me...I'm shy around girls..I really dont wanna be shy around girls..I cant look at them in the eye..I'm very strong and brave when I'm with guys but I'm too shy when I'm with girls...yeah,they're pretty..I guess,thats why..whats should I do???
2007-03-23 21:56:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude , your shy because of YOU .
You dont want to make a mistake , thats the problem.
Your a perfectionist , you want everything to go perfectly , you dont wanna screw up wen ur wid a gurl.
Just make a few friends , not hot ones , and learn their ways. Youll get over your shyness.
2007-03-23 22:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. It is good that something in you is saying girls should be treated different The girls are not the guys... Im a 43 year old mom. If I knew then what I know now... I should have paid more attention to those signs.. The loud, obnoxious, brazen guys... are usually very insecure themselves, they only appear brave and stong. Its a show. Appearance is not truth. At least you are being honest, girls like that, it will win you points in the long run
2007-03-24 05:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lorrie J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sincerely that you are letting them intimidate you for some reason. They are people, plain and simple. No more, no less. There is no reason why you cannot look them in the eye, talk to them, or be around them. Don't put them on a pedistal, they're just people, like anyone else. I think once you come out of your shell and give them a chance, you're going to find out what good friends they will be to you.
2007-03-24 05:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need more self confidence in yourself. Girls give you the attention you give to them.If you like flirt a little then they will too. Not necesarily does it have to be flirting it could be about a conversation your good at then take it from there. You will be surprised that time went by and you forgot about your shyness and maybe she did too!!! So concentrate on what and to who youd like to conversate about interesting things then before you know it you got to know and understand her and yourself better!!!! Good luck my friend!! Love, gloria
2007-03-24 05:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by gloria m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...sara is a female's name right?...so I"ll guess that you grew up with at least one or lots of brothers, and aren't close to your mom or something.
Maybe you could also be bi, or a lesbian, don't feel all sad and ashamed of yourself if you feel that way, you seem young, so your mind will soon adapt or change to feel however you'll eventually end up.
2007-03-24 05:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by Questionaire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to accept that girl, women, and females are still people. You can work on building up yourself confidence, that will help, and you can look at it this way, you can work on it, or you can just live a life without women?
2007-03-24 05:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by forestgleaner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi...all what you need to do is to stop thinking of how the girls see you or what they think of you...when you are around girls don't think of a way to talk to them, just be your self
if you felt that you can't say some thing or you felt nervous, say some thing funny or tell some thing happened with you or with one of your friends or your brothers....
just be you and you Will be fine
have a nice day
2007-03-24 05:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre just more comfortable around guys and thats ok. Eventually you'll grow more comfortable around girls. give it time and stay in you comfort zone. dont rush anything and make things akward for people around you
2007-03-24 04:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kendall :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls and guy are the same way respect them just like you would respect your sister and you wont be shy. talk to them like you would with mom or you sisters with respect and they will do the same for you. and one will probably want to have serous relation ship with you. Brotherly advice
2007-03-24 05:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by ajay2bgood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a sister why dint you ask her to introduce you to hes female friends so that you can developed you self confidence ..or try talking to your female relative and ask them what most of them want to be treated by men ...so that when its your turn to have a face to face conversation with any girl you ll find it easy
2007-03-24 05:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by cool as ice 25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋