This guy ive been dating, well we had gone out drinking, it was late about 2 am, i spent the night at his place, we were in bed, watching a boring movie, he wasnt too talkative, next thing i know i fall asleep/ The next day he wasnt in bed with me.. He was acting really distant the next day.. I didnt feel i did anything wrong , i thought it was natural, should i apologize?
2007-03-23 21:55:46 · 28 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's really weird of him. Maybe he just wasn't expecting you to spend the night and he got freaked out.
I sleep over all the time at my boyfriends house by accident, he doesn't usually care, and sometimes makes me breakfast! =D
2007-03-23 21:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that! You just had some drinks, it was 2 am, and a boring movie was on. What did he expect to happen? You shouldn't have to apologize, and he shouldn't overreact about something so minor. If he was you, the same thing would've happened. He would have fell asleep if you were watching a chick flick!!
2007-03-23 22:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should apologize. It is only the right thing to do if he was offend. He may be a little more sensitive than you in that area. You have to think about how it made him feel as well
2007-03-23 22:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by CHIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't f@#$%n appolagize the guy had a night planned to do what most single guy's hope to acheive, and he failed so he's being distant because you didn't put out or because he's to shy to make a move or to talk.
2007-03-23 22:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a good friend of yours then things should be fine. when i got out drinking with friends everyone crashes with who-ever. people shouldnt be given a hard time about guys sleeping in a bed with girls. if theres a level of maturity and trust then i dont see anything wrong with it
2007-03-23 22:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't apologize. Falling asleep is a natural thing, and if he is mad at you because you fell asleep during a boring movie when he was practically silent, he may very well be a jerk.
2007-03-23 22:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no reason to reproach yourself. That could have happened to him or anyone. If he really is acting distant (be sure it's not your imagination) then assure him that he is never boring to you (well.....lie a little). You were more tired than you realized.
2007-03-23 22:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by NeNe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he's making you feel uncomfortable, that should open the dialogue. Make sure dressed and the doors open when you begin. You never know what weir behavior can lead to.
2007-03-23 22:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was rude about it? he needs to apologize to you for being a distant jackass. He was the one that is rude. Yes, most people are sleeping at 2am... he should be glad you were there to keep him company.
2007-03-23 22:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lorrie J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. It would have been different if, during the throes of passion, you fell asleep. Then, yes, I would see why he was so upset. He's just being immature. :)
2007-03-23 21:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋