2007-03-23 21:13:01 · 20 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
signs of infidelity:
1.He treats you like crap
2. He rejects you when you want sex or doesn't initiate as often as he did (cause he is ridin' another pony!)
3. He makes more effort in his appearance than usual
4. You just have that feeling (and I am sure you do!)
5. He has a new-found confidence in himself
6. You find evidence e.g. perfume smell on him, telephone calls he will not answer in front of you, or e-mails from some strange woman
7. He tries ebven harder than before to hide his privacy
**** Please, let me know what is up (e-mail:rianaed@yahoo.com) ... and I can really give you some advice.
GOD BLESS and good luck!
2007-03-23 21:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This very question is flawed. You won't know for sure unless you find hard evidence. But if you even suspect that he's cheating, there is no trust in the relationship, and it must be ended. If you're hitched and/or have kids, time for counseling. But as a general rule, trust is indeed necessary for a working relationship.
2007-03-24 04:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Brianman3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will act moody, or shady. you'll see it in his eyes. Never accuse, because if he isn't then you might as well given him the go ahead if you're going to accuse him. Bring up cheating and watch his response. If he gets uncomfortable, can't look you in the eye, or gets defensive it's not 100% but you can think it might be true. If you can't trust him.....why are you with him???? ask yourself that. If he cheats what else does he lie about?
2007-03-24 04:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by ILLput MY idONlaterWITHxox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your past relationships and if cheating was involved...if you were hurt in the past you are more likely to suspect cheating again....
Otherwise if its something almost obvious like a bra found under the bed or something similar then you have your evidence....
2007-03-24 04:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow him around, EVERYWHERE he goes, ease-drop on ALL his phone calls, read EVERY single one of his letters/e-mails...........
When he finds out you're doing this, he'll surely leave you though!
There's no "for sure" way (unless he's caught in the act, or you hire a PI) to know your man is creeping on you.
Rule of thumb: if you suspect it, it's probably true.
2007-03-24 04:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably already know in your heart of hearts...does he lie to others? C'mon, you would know. Cheaters slip up and their dishonesty shows even to those they deceive the most. If he is a liar than he is likely to cheat on you too. Sorry.
2007-03-24 04:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell 'Cheater's', the TV show people what you think he's up to and they might investigate for you.
http://www.cheaters.com/
Or hire someone to follow him, or find a new guy that won't even make you think he'd ever consider cheating.
2007-03-24 04:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by isis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to explain why you think he is cheating? Hire an investigator. I don't know how much information you think your going to get here if you don't explain.
2007-03-24 04:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Miranda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there may be evidence on his mobile phone...and, check his pockets for evidence that he has bought flowers, jewellery or chocolates for someone else, and his credit card slips for daytime motel stays. Or hire a private detective!
2007-03-24 04:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by David R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves you a lot and acts very loving and caring suddenly.I suggest you hire a private spy.
2007-03-24 04:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋