that im dating the wrong person if I want to be all cuddly with him. why is it that guys say one thing in the beginning of the relationship then after like 2 years they change their answer? he loves me a lot, but it's weird that guys say one thing and then change the answer after the relationship has gotten serious.
2007-03-23 21:07:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie boys and men do this all their lives its really just a male thing,they try hard to make us happy but get in their little moods from time to time as we do also,he will want that cuddle it wont take long try to hold back when you feel the erge to cuddle him make him come to you,some people dont like to to clingy it could also be the weather.im sure he loves you very much honestly it dosnt change even when they are 50 my father still changes his mind like his underwear.
good luck all the best.
2007-03-23 21:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by electrified_dancers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how it is, we all ,at some point, say what we think the other wants to hear in the beginning, whether it's a man or a woman. We're all guilty of trying to conform to what we believe someone we're attracted to likes. Then, after the defenses goes down and we become comfortable, our true selves come out. Sometimes this is a good thing; other times, it makes you want to strangle your partner. :)
2007-03-23 21:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone is indecisive in there life. sorry, but he prolly doesnt like the way you are with him now. he doesnt want the relationship that you want, and that is obvious. when a guy is faced with a serious relationship, then that is when he really starts to think about what he is doing. maybe you should get another guy, cause you shouldnt change just cuz he wants you to...
2007-03-23 21:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when he first told you to be more intimacy...he felt that you both weren't that close to each other, so he wanted you to "be closer" by being touchy feely...You know?
But now that he has the reassurance that you both love each other...he knows you love him...and he doesn't need you to express it as much as in the beginning.
2007-03-23 21:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Julia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years huh, sounds like he wanted to get "close to you" quick. and playing the sensitive card is a great way to rapidly advance in the Physical game of "love".
Sounds like he's ready to move to the next victim, got what he wanted and looking for a way out.
2007-03-23 21:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by ScootersVoice 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you know what i dont wanna be weird...but i had a girl friend for two year and i never turned her down of cuddling me....i think ur bf moved on to another girll....sorry...but that might be true...cuz i dont like to be touchy feely but if i told her to be she would...and dif she stoped u know something fishy...
2007-03-23 21:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he means is that he is selfish and only wants to be touchy-feely when he wants.
2007-03-23 21:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prob. started out wanting to be all touchy and/or he just wanted to tell you that cause he thot that'd attract you to him so he could go out with you/stay together. now it sounds like maybe he's affraid of committment or something. what a noob...
2007-03-23 21:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People's tastes change, maybe he doesn't want such a cling girlfriend. Or maybe he doesn't like you as much anymore. Either one is possible.
2007-03-23 21:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by H M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT a good sign-ask him what's going on and pay attention to his body language when he answers.
2007-03-23 21:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Salsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋