I have been with this guy for about 10 months now...and i just cant handle the way he is, he is so hard headed sometimes, and just wants me to shutup and stay quiet whenever we have an arguement, he doesnt want me to go to college, or getting a job and just wants me to stay home all day with nothing to do...N he wants to know every single move i make like literally if i get online without telling him he'll get mad and make it a big deal, he's so overprotective, I can go on and on about him and how much i feel...feel free to IM me on my yahoo messanger...
2007-03-23 20:56:57 · 19 answers · asked by rattlebabe07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simple..... you say....."I dont want to be with you anymore"
you obviously dont love him if you dont want to be with him
2007-03-23 20:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rosa M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bear confidence. You lack it. Tell him how you feel and if you don't want to make an arguements infront of him since as yu said he is more superior in short and very demanding, then, make a letter that express how you feel.
Now, go to other places away from him and unwind. People may only realized the worth of his/her beloved when he/she could be able to have a peace of mind and be able to have a time to think what is to what is not. How she/he feels and so on. Do not make a final decision without taking a pause. Perhaps he has it's own reason that is you to help him to adjust with his environment. Now if you really feel that you don't want to be with him anymore, than do it in a formal way that has really a valuable reason.
2007-03-24 04:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Benoair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you live together and that is a big mistake. move out and tell him that you need your space, you feel smoothered and unable to make your own decisions. assure him that you love him and want to work on your relationship but the way he treats you is beginning to affect the way you feel about the relationship. he is not overprotective he is POSSESSIVE. there is a big difference.
2007-03-24 04:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he ever warn you that he'll do smtg if you leave him?
if dont,just say what you feel inside about him overprotected you just making you so breathless,tell him the truth and just leave him
no point of living with this kind of man, or you'll regret it forever
but its all up to you actually
can you or cant you leave him?
that's the Question
2007-03-24 04:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds very controlling and freaky to me. i am scared for you. honestly. i've seen situations like this before where the guy wants the woman to give up all her firends her family everything for him ,to be completely dependent on him and obviously she will not be happy like this, so when she tries to do things to make herself happy, like see old friends etc, and she comes home he is there waiting and angry, then the abuse starts! physical violence i am talking about! i think you should break up with him and leave him as fast as you can. i don't know the whole situation but it sounds strange from what you have said. why would he not want you to go to college and do things to better yourself? please be careful with this man.
2007-03-24 04:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by shopsummor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to back off. he's being too overprotetive and annoying. tell him that STRAIGHT and he'll obviously get the picture. that is a really immature thing to do in terms of being overprotective. how old are you two????
2007-03-24 04:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very easy....
use your backbone, be strong, stand your groung firmly and simply say "I dont want to be with you (date you, like you in that way, etc,) anymore" but we could be good friends
this is all it takes ..
then stick to your word
You have all the "P" ower and half the money , as they say
2007-03-24 04:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st u check ur self into a clinic because you dont know what love is you love him,BUT love is unconditional hopefully he has someone else besides you you love him but dont want to be with him anymore mature & learn how to respect the word love then learn how to love ur self then you might be able to really love
2007-03-24 04:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him everything you told us, hun. If he starts to harass you afterwards, have your parents get a restraining order against him for you. Good Luck and Be Careful.
2007-03-24 04:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Kiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is an intelligent person he will automatically judge this thing from ur behaviour that u r avoiding him and don't want to be with him any more.
2007-03-24 04:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by kiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that ur not comfortable with him and so dont want to continue the relationship
2007-03-24 04:06:02 · answer #11 · answered by Vns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋