2007-03-23 20:54:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most of the time we go out and i pay for it even if he is the only one eating. sometimes he pays for his half and i pay for my 1/2, which is ok with me. im not even that rich, im still a student and have part time job. he just got a full time job.
2007-03-23 21:17:47 · update #1
What does he do to make you think so? I am of the old school and when a man asks you to go out with him.......he pays! First of all, you let a man be a man and do not take over his role. His role is provider, protector, and leader. These days, men are acting like women and using girls because this is what is expected. Dump this loser and find a REAL man who knows his role and is happy in it! There are still some out there! I have raised my boys to pay and be real men and they do not expect girls to pay for a date! Parents need to raise men and not expect them to live off the backs of women!
2007-03-23 20:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe YES and maybe NOT!
Is that how you really think of him?? He cares for your money and not you?? Come to think of it. Sometimes it's not right to make a certain judgement to whoever he is, that he only cares for your money. Make your own strategy that is some kind of an experiement for your to be able to know if he cares for you or just to you money either. Don't ask him directly, makes a certain moves that is not totally against on his sides. Use your head! I knew it works when you want and when you really that eager to find out,. But of course, you must set yourself ready for whatever the possible outcome may result and it's now still up to you to decide. Go Girl!
2007-03-23 21:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a man! Dumb him and get someone you truly deserve. I am sure there's a lot of guys out there who willing to pay for you instead of waiting for you to take your wallet out and pays! Here's one - I'll pay for your lunch/dinner next time!
2007-03-23 21:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quite frankly if you spend money on him, you're a fool
so, if you have some or lots of money and you're spending it on him, then the answer is a firm yes
Actually it is easy for any female to find out why a guy is with them...
don't give him the "P" (power) or money and see if he sticks around because he like you , the person...
good luck
2007-03-23 21:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Gary G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if he makes you pay for everything, lives with you but has no job, and spends all your money on himself. Those would be warning signs.
2007-03-23 20:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he have his own money or are you buying most everything? Does he make plans for your money? Does he work? I think you already know the answer to your question.
2007-03-23 20:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by OTTO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him now, dont waste your time on a loser and user. There are plenty of better catches out there, so while you are with him, you are missing out on better catches. And, if he is mean with money now, he will only get worse.
2007-03-24 18:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by grasshopper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer your question, because it is too vague, and you don't give any details on why you are asking this. The fact you are asking this, makes me think the relationship isn't what it should be.
2007-03-23 20:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ikeg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be with you only for your money, but with the information you have given it is really impossible to tell. IM me if you woudl like and we can discuss it. It is up to you.
2007-03-23 20:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by daddyspanksalot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ever find out that he is with you only for that reason, next time around don't tell anyone about your finances.
2007-03-23 21:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋