Well... it seems like everytime i get with a guy or go out with one.. they are total jerks... i mean its not like im picky and i dont do anything that would make them be total douches but yeah i just need some advice on how to tell if a guy is good or a jerk .. lol i know its kinda hard but if u have any advice.. id appreciate it..
2007-03-23 20:29:40 · 8 answers · asked by michellewashere05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had the same problem. I will now be celebrating my 2 year anniversary with my fiance! He treats me like gold, and i have never been happier.
The advice that i would give you is, be friends first. No matter how much you like a guy. Meet his family, see how he treats his parents, see how he treats his friends, and how he talks about other people when they arnt around and his ex girlfriends. If he seems like a genuine guy then go for it, if not than run away, and FAST.
I hope it all works out for you, I know how stressful being single can be especially when you are confused.
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2007-03-23 20:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to do more casual stuff before "going out". Go for an ice cream or to a school game, somewhere with friends first. The best way to "inspect" another is to observe them with others. And this big rule-the way a guy treats his mother is the same way he'll treat you.
2007-03-24 03:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest to see what you really want in a guy....look at it in a different way rather than putting too much priority on looks, too outgoing, etc...chage your preferences then a nice guy will come out...
Look for a guy who has:
1.) Calm character
2.) Speaks without using foul language
3.) Doesn't see sex as a priority
4.) Is mature
5.) Has goals and has respect
2007-03-24 03:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy wants u for sex then hes a good guy. and if he wants u for a real relantion ship then his a jerk. lol
2 points hell yea!
2007-03-24 03:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by andrey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, a friend or someone you've known for a while that you KNOW would never want to hurt you.
2007-03-24 03:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me being a christian myself i wud find a christian guy, if they r really a christian they will not b jerks.
2007-03-24 03:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by SHABOOYA! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no sure way to tell. just watch how he treats other people, especially his mother.
2007-03-24 03:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know the guy first?.
2007-03-24 03:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by minizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋