I am not talking about cheating. I am just speaking generally. I know someone that has feelings for this girl, but he had sex with another girl. Why did he do that if he cares for the other girl?
2007-03-23 20:29:27 · 16 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people believe sex to be completely separate from love. It's possible that your friend cares deeply about this girl and could easily have sex with another girl. After all, he had sex with her, he didn't make love to her.
It's also a possibility that he may of been feeling frustrated towards not getting the girl he wanted so he may of tried to justify that ego bruise by having sex with the other girl.
There are a multitude of possibilities and being that I don't know the guy, I can't know for sure. But I don't believe that it means he doesn't really care about the other girl. I'm almost positive he does.
2007-03-23 20:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Curious Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was just talking to my friends about this same situation. and my friend happened to be a guy. he explained that when it comes to sex some guys look at sex as something that has no meaning u know doing something that has no emotions attached to it. why it is like this he said that just the way some guys are. he also said that men can really love someone but justhave sex with random girls just for the hell of it. but because they dont put their emotions into sex alot of people can get hurt in the process including the girl he loves and the girl he is having sex with. so on the other hand with ur situation he probrably does not care for the gil he is having sex with and to be completly honest he must not care for that girl if he wont change his ways.
2007-03-23 20:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by superstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
speaking on a philosophical level...i suppose the events, timing or circumstances surrounding such things.
I think people arent in love all the time. you absolutely know when youre 'in love' and when there is space to call it a commitment to the relationship. sometimes its steadfast committment, sometimes it isnt. people go thru difficult or confusing times, and some just seek change for whatever reasons. Like your own relatives...you dont see them every day...but you love them all the time. I guess its that way with a partner...a familial relationship but with more intimacy of course. Doesnt make infidelity less hurtful. Pain or regret will still occur and rebuilding trust and having faith is the 'choice' of the hurting partner. peace
2007-03-23 20:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by *) ayla 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is this guy is a dumba**. To be a decent human being is to keep your feelings straight, more importantly, your words and actions should match up and be consistent. If I had feelings for a guy, I would only pursue this one and only guy. But then again, I am a one-guy-kinda-girl. and it usually takes me some time to get over that guy after a breakup until I can move on. i wished I knew how guys think-but then again, I just got outta a relationship where the ex bf started creeping and being shady with texting some other chick before I fully moved outta his house-so...not sure, I guess some guys are just void of sensitivity, feelings and are robots.
2007-03-23 20:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because a mans brains are not in his head. It's down below.
And both cant function at the same time. Your friend chose the 1 he finds more immediate pleasure.
He'll probably cheat on her again even after they start goin out
2007-03-23 20:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Regnex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wilt Chamberlain, the late great NBA basketball player, had sex with 20,000 different women - men will generally have sex with whatever is available - assuming women are that foolish
2007-03-23 20:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by JET99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his feelings for her is not true. If he really has true feelings for her, he would only have sex with her. The other reason may be that the girl he has feelings for dosen't want to have sex, so he finds another girl to have sex with.
2007-03-23 20:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by priincessgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
klack of self discipline and much craving for earthly pleasure. he maybe in love with the other girl but maybe that girl can't give what his body needs and the otherg girl can. that is on the look-out of the other girl. you have to inform the other girl for her not to be put on such shameful thing.
2007-03-23 20:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by pyrrhus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people do have meaningless intercourse, in and out of marriage. that doesn't make it appropriate. in case you're married, stay dedicated. in case you do not choose to settle with one individual, don't get married. btw I in basic terms heard some guy on the radio speaking approximately stats exhibiting married intercourse is greater effectual.
2016-10-19 12:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by arleta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people, it is not difficult to separate love from sex.
2007-03-23 20:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋