Hi I'm Blue Eyed Girls friend and I had a boyfriend not to long ago. But I broke up with him because he was being a jerk to some of my guy friends because he thought they liked me. He was way to over protective. When a guy would hit on me he would want to start a fight with them. Its been about 2 weeks now sine we have been broken up. He has a new girlfriend and she is one of my friends!!!!! But I'm happy for them I just find myself regretting sometimes because some of my friends think he still likes me. I don't know what to do cant figure out if I'm over him or not what should I do. And how do I get a new guy?
2007-03-23 20:28:21 · 22 answers · asked by joelle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your friend is the idiot!she's not supposed to date your X,n for you girl you deserve much more better go out and show that guy what he just missed!and meet new guys who will understand you!goodluck hope we cn be friends too
2007-03-23 21:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by vash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a tough question....All right well, I was that overprotective guy in my last relationship...um haha.....From my side, I broke up with her for other reasons but, I started dating a girl right after I broke up with my ex because I couldnt handle being alone. I still have feelings for my ex, but it's better that I do not express my feelings (i guess just because of the type of person I found out she was), because I don't want to get caught up in that again. I'm sure some part of him still likes you, but you need to move on - don't let him win and have a good fun life and leave you in the dust. Flirt a little, start up conversations with boys. My friend thats a girl actually straight up told a guy that she thought he was cute and that they should hang out. That's very attractive, I wish a girl would do that to me-I always have to work at it and ask myself. Above all, you can't get through this like that and find a boyfriend in an instant, you have to relax and realize that it's not gonna be easy getting over a guy.
2007-03-24 03:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Matt M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Blue eyed, The guy was a jerk. I marry someone just like him and they get worse about guys looking at you.Then they start saying terrible things to you and the list gos on. I divorce the jerk. So this should be telling you something. If you want a nice guy just be yourself and make sure you don't get involved with another jerk.Don't be afraid to have fun and enjoy yourself. Always be yourself and you will be find.
A Friend Who Knows.
Clowmy
2007-03-24 04:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You regret being with someone that's over protective and jealous to the point of fighting your friends ? (you said it yourself).
Did he not trust you? He was going out with you, none of your friends were!
You're a very good friend being happy for your girl. Still be there for her.
Even if he liked you still (according to your friends, not proven) would you really want him to treat you & others like that ?
You're more mature than he is, don't feel bad. You learned something from that expereince.
Please ask yourself it you want a new guy to get over him, or just to compete? ( at times, you get emotionally involved and your heart can only take so much you know- In my experience with that situation, I gave my heart some time to redefine how I felt & what I really wanted for a guy ) :)
2007-03-24 03:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. International 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm..his friends could actually just be teasing you and leading you astray. if they arent, then he's just trying to use her either to get attention or to just try and clear his mind of you. this, obviously, shows that he denies his feelings for you. im happy that you are very happy for them; that is what i believe to be the right thing. about regretting, dont regret, cuz everything happens for a reason. everything will play out as it must, and you cannot stop that. everything will turn out for the better. about that protective stuff, that sounded weird. and about that boy stuff, im a guy, so i cant help you there. good luck!!!
2007-03-24 03:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone that's over protective? It sounds like he's insecure. As long as you're not responding to someone else's advances, the man your with shouldn't feel threatened. Starting fights with someone for no reason sounds like he's got an anger problem. Do you really want to be involved with someone like that? Who's to say that he won't turned that anger toward you in the future. You want someone who will treat you respect. It's time to move on.
2007-03-24 03:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Akonte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok. this guy was a jerk. over-protective, cmon just broke up wit him. FORGET ABOUT HIM AND BE HAPPY FOR FRIEND. and so what if he likes u, just get over him. thats all you do. and on getting on another man. find one that u feel u could live forever in his arms. and dont be stupid and have revenge sex with some hot, empty-headed shallow idiot to make that one guy jealous. thats just stupid and irresponsible.
2007-03-24 03:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's a jerk don't bother urself about it. Wanting him back will just make u feel crap. Life goes on, u'll find some1 better and wonder why on earth u ever wanted this guy.
2007-03-24 06:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay away from them and also try finding the right guy buy going to the gym of if stil in school just find some one lonly that needs confert and he whont whant to start fights
2007-03-24 03:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by Boss302 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should first figure out what you think you want in life , then sit back and decide what you really want in life, then take that road - there is more to life than " I gotta have a BF"
and certainly more to life then indenturing yourself to someone.
look at what your true priorities should be as opposed to where you have them now. Therein lied your answer, but you have to seek it out for yourself
2007-03-24 03:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by chazzn101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋