2007-03-23 20:20:09 · 13 answers · asked by big_r681 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darn - one out of two!!
I would never cheat, but having three children, I'm a bit psycho, however not completely psycho!
Does that still count?
2007-03-23 20:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by nicholettejohnson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reality check; You are a nice guy. Nice guys finish last. Always. No exceptions.
Sooner or later, you will come to realize that you have only 3 choices in this area of your life;
1. learn to at least act like a jerk so women will like, respect, and engage in sex with you. They will actually appreciate YOU.
2. Accept your fate, and pick a psycho to use and abuse you.
3. Accept your fate and stay alone. Learn to love yourself and be a complete person. Enjoy your life to the fullest without dealing with relationships.
I know it sucks, and you have alot to offer, but you have to realize the more you offer, the worse you will be treated.
I'm in the same boat. I have chosen to combine #s 1 and 3 to be alone and be a jerk at the same time, just to be difficult. I might as well make it interesting, right?
Good luck
2007-03-24 03:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to find out what you really like in a woman don't settle for the sake of having a woman around.When you do acknowledge what you are looking for,then there won't be any chances of you getting left out or betrayed because of having somehow the basis of similar personalities, you'll be able to get along fine and won't get bored with each other.
2007-03-24 03:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by mljyc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try meeting people at different kind of places then you normally do. Most woman at bars are looking for someone to buy them a drink and spend $ on them. As soon as you see a sign of some acting weird cut them loose. Try being friends first. Get to know them before getting romantic.
2007-03-24 03:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Akonte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...first off...stop looking. Let her find you! Dont be so..sorry to say it desperate sounding. It will happen when it is meant to happen. And try moving the relationship slow...the next time you meet someone. dates first..then maybe a movie at home...(after 4-5 dates away from home). Get to knwo them REALLY well before leading them to think something more is coming...cause to be quite honest that could be part of the problem...I'm sorry if that hurts but it could be the truth..I'm not saying it is, just that it could be. Stop looking...date casually, and know that she will find you when you least expect it...so there ya go...dont expect it!
2007-03-24 03:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you did. You just are not paying attention.
Maybe she's around under a different image, than that you have in mind. Work on yourself that way when she comes your way, you'll be ready to make her your girl!
2007-03-24 03:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. International 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woman are getting as bad as men.They do alot of cheating.I think it`s sad that alot of woman don`t have morals.
2007-03-24 03:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The issue lies in the women you seem to be attracted to. If you start seeing a pattern develop in your relationships, it's time to look inward at what is drawing you toward a dysfunctional one to begin with. :)
2007-03-24 03:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would be someb ody really hard to find. you only have to have a little patience in waiting for that girl, for I assure you, almost all girls now dont waste their beauty wwith just a freak guy.
2007-03-24 03:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by pyrrhus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you are settling. Raise the bar and set higher standards.
2007-03-24 03:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by SquirrelBait 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋