my fiance is cheating on me again I forgave her 1 time already I take care of her kids that arent mine but she claims arent I cook clean and do laundry for her would u cheat on a guy like me I am a gentleman when it comes to the ladies I ttreat women like queens like they deserve
2007-03-23 20:17:02 · 12 answers · asked by franke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont marry her its not going to change when you get married get out now
2007-03-23 20:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, cheating once is forgivable, but twice! I don't think so. This is a BIG red flag to get out of this relationship before you tie the knot and regret it. It's obvious she can't stop cheating and it will get worse after you are married. If you are a gentleman, then you will not have a problem finding a respectable and loyal girlfriend with whom you can build a trusting relationship. How can you ever trust your fiance' now? You would always be wondering if she's cheating on you and that's no way to start a marriage. Get the heck out of Dodge, now! Good luck.
2007-03-23 20:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by bernadette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do sound like a great guy. You aren't the problem, the women you choose are. The question as to why she's cheating is a tad complex; there are numerous reasons why she even did it the second time. My guess? She knew you would take her back; she knows she can have other men for fun and you for stability.
It's time to be single again and really re-evaluate your priorities and how you choose to be treated in future relationships. Good luck to you. :)
2007-03-23 20:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all females deserve to be treated like ladies. I am an excellant cook, I like to keep my house clean but I am not going to waste that on some free loading semen recpticle. Lesson learned, now launch her, hold your head up and find a real woman, there are not a lot of them out there but there are some good luck.
2007-03-23 20:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mc Fly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then, YEA! Trust your gut feelings since most people don't even notice something is wrong until it is really wrong. Take a hair cut for example. If you cut an inch off of a person's hair that it three feet long you wouldn't notice but if you do it to someone who only had two inches then you would freak out. So yea, she is getting it from some other guy.
2007-03-23 20:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to dump her ***. she does not appreciate u. she is using u. and obviously does not respect you. the same applies for women that cheat, once a cheat always a cheat. i cant believe she is still ur fiance. u have time to get out b4 its too late. b4 she saddles u with a kid that she claims to be urs when it belongs to her lover. run now while u still can and find a woman that will appreciate u and treat u the way u deserve to be treated
2007-03-23 20:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you need to treat women with much more confidence. I always had problems when I tried to kiss their behinds . Now if they give me trouble I just laugh at them and show them the door . They will respect you much more and try harder to keep you happy . They will continue to step on you if keep doing what you are doing .
2007-03-23 20:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has it to easy and is taking advantage of it. If you have proof she is cheating, it's time to move on man.
2007-03-23 20:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are too soft. She cheats because you let her get away with it. Just be a man and lose the *****
2007-03-23 20:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by chookdood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frank, plant a camera on her, and watch her, and if she is, kick her to the curb, i dont understand why women would cheat on gentlemen like us, my girlfriend Lindsey is loyal, and she would NEVER cheat on me, and i would NEVER cheat on her =) i love her so much
2007-03-23 20:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋