Or do you help her out and tell her the hard truth?
2007-03-23 20:11:21 · 14 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um well all girls like to be told sumthing nice even if its not the truth, but if its noticeble, then say sumthing like, "yea your a little chubby but i love you for who you are and what you look like, thats why im with you". Or if you dont like it then, um offer to diet with her n stuff. i duno, yeah you should tell them the truth..
2007-03-23 20:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by louise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only time you should lie is if she was recently pregnant. Any other time you should tell the truth of what YOU feel. You can BS yourself all you want, but your heart knows the truth. This country's media is pussifying everyone. No one can handle the truth anymore. We award losers and overprotect too much.
2007-03-23 20:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by sirtitan45 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you tell her shes fat and she needs to start working out. Tell her that you will not tolerate her fatness and her taking up so much space. Tell her that you refuse to by bigger sized clothing, and that you will not sleep with her until she starts looking more like Scarlett Johansson.
Umm...seriously tell her to go on a diet, but if you're a fattie forget it you go on a diet first.
2007-03-23 20:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the gilr ,some girls wanna know there truth some ask but doont wanna know the truth so if u think u girl could handle it tell her but in sweet way like "u r a lil bit chubby but it doesn't matter cuz i love and we r 2gether" but if your girl is one of those who r pain inthe *** it 's better if u shut . good luck
2007-03-23 20:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, this is a touchy subject for women you you need to understand that YOU NEED TO BE AS SENSITIVE AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN. You have to let her know what you think but not in a mean way. You should start by telling her that you want to be honest with her but that doesn't change the way you feel about her, and that she shouldn't get upset because that's just not cool. Telling her that shes NOT overweight when she is is NOT helping her at all. You need to encourage her by LOVING HER and advising her. Take runs together and work out. Never poke fun EVEN if you're joking. Hey, we're sensitive creatures and we need support. Good luck
2007-03-23 20:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by hOd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to tell her the truth and try to explain to her that sometimes the truth hurts. So that she will know what to do to her body.
2007-03-23 20:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, what so she doesn't know she's fat? Is she one of those idiots who end up getting upset because a doctor tells them they have gone from overweight to obese and act shocked and hurt?? If so, you date some dumb women!
If she's fat, tell her she's fat. I'd rather my partner tell me I've gained a bit of weight then find myself 200 lbs and counting haha. As if that would happen though!
2007-03-23 20:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would tell her the hard truth, fortunately I don't have that problem.
2007-03-23 20:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, she knows that she is fat if she asks you. and to answer ur question, yes LIE. we dont want to hear that we are fat if we are. there are only two times a woman will ask u if she is fat. one is if she is truly fat (she asks cuz she wants assurance that though she is fat u still love her and find her attractive) and second is if they are not fat but they have some kinda unhealthy rlshp with their body or food.
2007-03-23 20:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by braille 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow that is a hard one, being a girl myself i wud prob wouldnt like being told either way. lied or not. mayb tell her and u guys can chill at the gym together, go on long walks together, make it romantic, but get good exercise at the same time.
2007-03-23 20:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by SHABOOYA! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No....dnt lie......but if u dnt have a problem with it....itll make her feel good if u say yes ur fat...but i think ur beautiful and it doesnt bother me....
2007-03-23 20:21:11 · answer #11 · answered by Lauren A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋