im 14 and i need locations where i can take my girlfriend out, with out her dad tagging along, lets just say he dosent really aprive if her seening any one right now,i mean i want this to be romantic you know? it gonna be our 5 month anv. and i wanted to to be all nice and stuff,
2007-03-23 20:10:58 · 13 answers · asked by Justin G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you all for helping me but lets focus here, im trying to be lone with her, not with her dad here, at school, were never alone, it eather her friend or mine that ruins the monent, and every date we've been on her dad was watching as if i was a dead man, i coulnd even hold her hand, and im not sneeking her out or takeing her to my bedroom i know some of you alredythought of that but im not gonns do that, im 14!!! and she 13!!! were not gonna has sexual intercores!!!! Were to young our body waven't finished matureing yet i mean i know the guy who posted that ment well but dude... i love her ya but, were to young that and i promiced her i wound't be like everyother guy, most guys went straight for her ***, and every time she got hert, i coulnd bear to watch her get hert like that so i ask her out and swore i woulnt be like every other guy, id think with my head, not my pants.. get what im saying???
2007-03-23 20:28:50 · update #1
oh i forgot to add her dad dosnt approve because she got hert way too meny times before
2007-03-23 20:30:28 · update #2
ok the question is on where to take her not gain the trust of her dad and for all you who are about to resond to that, i'll make a new question labeled "need help gaining gf dad trust plz help j.g."ok so lets focus where to take her!!
2007-03-23 20:38:12 · update #3
Take her to Baskin Robbins or something. That's not to say that her dad might let you go alone though. A gift might be a nice alternative, if you can't take her out alone. I suggest Baskin Robbins because you don't want it to be too serious. 5 months might be a long time for you but in her dad's eyes and also mine, you haven't been together for very long at all. A year is when people have their anniversaries anyway. When I read that, I laughed, but then I have to rember that you are a lot younger than I and time goes by much more quickly when you get older.
2007-03-23 23:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No wonder the dad's tagging along. It's because she's 14 not 18 and if the pair of you get into danger or she gets into danger it's HIS responsibility and the blame is put on the parents. Try and gain his trust first. Talk about something you both find interesting and don't try to sneek off he obviously loves and cares for his daughter that he worries and YOU will get into serious trouble and maybe even your girlfriend.
2007-03-23 20:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Gumby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has worked with me with parents is be up front with them. Show them you're a mature person and sit down with her father and let him know how you feel.
Let him know that you would never do anything do disrespect his daughter in anyway. That you would do anything in you power to protect her from harm. That you care for her and you would really feel much at ease that he approves of you dating his daughter and you know that it would really make his daughter happy as well.
This will give you a better shot of getting his trust and him feeling comfortable for you to take his daughter out without supervision.I've done this with every girl who's parents I've met and it works.
And when you're around him....watch what you do. Do act stupid and immature. Do that when he's not around.
Good luck!
P.S. Sound convincing when you talk to him....but do be over dramatic. Also, it's good to feel and sound a little nervous, it makes it a little more convincing.
2007-03-23 20:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by adammontoya@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't correct of you to get a divorce wih her considering the fact that your mother kissed her dad. It's now not like there getting married or relationship. I hink you will have to keep together with your female friend and check out to make matters paintings. Just speak to her and inform her the way you consider. Don't harm her and possibly even inform her you're keen on her :)
2016-09-05 14:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like lyja suggested, make a date that includes her dad. Not only will this show the girl that you're willing to make the effort, her dad might be impressed as well.
You have to remember, no matter how old a girl gets, most dad's still see her as their "little girl". Be very respectful of his relationship with her or you won't make it far in this, or any future relationship. :)
2007-03-23 20:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her Dad doesn't approve because...?
Will you have to sneak her out of the house or something?
See what you can afford, and the location won't matter that much. The intention & moment will matter most. Get her a meanigful little gift, whether how you 1st met or other!
2007-03-23 20:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. International 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, talk to her dad. why not make it at her house-you're still young to be left alone that 's why her dad is always tagging along. instead of going against the current, make friends with her dad. show him that you can be trusted. that way, he will be assured that her daughter is safe with you. ask the help of her dad on your 5th month anv. it might make a difference.wanna try?
2007-03-23 20:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since it is already summer, you can ask her to have your date near the seashore and if you can afford , try to ask for a bvand to make your date a little bit romantic. That if it is what shes interested to. Try to ask somebody who can tell you what places she would wanna go and that wouldgive you a good idea.
2007-03-23 20:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by pyrrhus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the beach or a park for a picnic, you bring all the stuff like little sandwiches and drinks and you picnic like back in the day it is soooo sweet
2007-03-23 20:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you live near a beach, go there, or go to a good restaurant, or make her something to eat, with candles at the table
2007-03-23 20:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋