OK so this is my story, met a guy at work he became my "special" friend, 2 months after dating Im pregnant, we move in together and have our son things are good, but only good. I always felt guilty because he was supposed to only be a fling. I feel inadequate we fight I leave, I come back we fight I leave again this goes on for about 5 months. Now all of a sudden last week we were on the couch watching TV and he starts laughing histerically, I look at him laughing he looks so happy and our son besides us mocking his dads laugh laughing out loud just like dad, and it hits me. Its everything Ive ever wanted.... I want to get married do I ask will I put myself out there how do I "erase" the negative things Ive said during fights, can it work?
2007-03-23 20:10:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just tell him you love him and you're sorry for all the bad things that have happened but you feel you're ready to take the next step and you hope he is too. I'm married and me and my husband get in fights all the time and we say bad things to each other. But then all of the sudden something like what happened to you happens and I realize that he's the best thing I could ever ask for. Even if we do get mad at each other, and we have nothing in common except for a few things.
2007-03-23 20:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"A good marriage is made up of two givers". Read "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands", apply it, and live happily ever after."
Also, the more you learn about your creator the happier your family will be. He designed us and instituted marriage. Doesn't it stand to reason that any designor should know what's best for His creation?
May God bless you all.
2007-03-24 03:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋