I am starting my first relationship, i have never been involved in any sexual relationships. so i need help. what should i do. i am nervous
2007-03-23 20:01:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? You should know someone for at least 6 months before you even CONSIDER a sexual relationship. You need to know something about your partner's sexual history (otherwise you could be having "sex" with at least 20 people - his sex partners and their sex partners and...). You need to understand how committed he is to you. "Friends with benefits" may sound like a good idea, however -- women usually want MORE of the "Friends" (relationship)
part, while men usually are happy to get the "Benefits" (sex) without any commitment. If this sounds like it is stacked in the guy's direction -- you are right!!
Take your time! Do not be in a hurry!! DO NOT do anything that makes you feel nervous (it may be your BRAIN telling you that things are not right!!). You have PLENTY of time to do this the right way for you!
2007-03-23 20:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to that little voice in your head and don't do anything that doesn't feel right to you. You'll get pressured and teased, but stick to what you believe. You're the one that has to carry the consequences of your actions with you the rest of you life, so you get to decide what is best for you, try not to fall prey to the pressure tactics of others. This can be one of the best experiences of your life, even if you sway a little from what you've decided for yourself, don't be too critical of yourself if you do. When you are 80 years old and you look back at it all, those experiences become the best of memories. Live large, but take good care of yourself along the way. I'm assuming you are relatively young. Youth is one of the best things you'll ever have.
2007-03-23 20:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Janette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell us more, age? Nerves and excitement are the same emotion. So relax, it happens to everybody. Use it do make your new relationship work. Non nervous people tend to be boring.
2007-03-23 20:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him for "more than a week". Advice? Males are the best actors. Time is your friend: Ignore him at your peril.
2007-03-23 20:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there isn't much to say besides be yourself. It's not about what you should do but what you want. Go for it but be willing to compromise.
2007-03-23 20:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by religiousanonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is get married.
2007-03-23 20:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you feel comfortable doing. dont rush into anything. but when your ready you will know
good luck
2007-03-23 20:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ttech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take things at your own pace, let the other person know that what your ready for && what your not ready for
2007-03-23 20:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with him on your wedding night.
2007-03-23 20:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah. Don't rush into things and don't do things which you will regret.
2007-03-23 20:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋