I met this girl a week ago for the first time we really met on a dating site like a harmony thing and talked for a few weeks. So we have a great i mean great weekend. Lots of kissing couple talk like im good for her shes good for me stuff. but no sex and we are cool with that. but now she says dont contact her at all. She kissed me she grabbed my hand and pushed the relationship. I dont get an explanation? I think she scared herself or maybe i did but i was just following her lead. I dont know what to do. Last text was "leave me alone". Help please.
2007-03-23 20:00:38 · 14 answers · asked by budjr8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sucks that she seemed so into you and so quickly decided that's not what she wanted anymore, but you need to respect her wishes. if she is serious about you leaving her alone and wanting nothing to do w/ you, then move on to the next possible person. This was only a weekend, which may have meant a lot to you, but clearly didn't mean the same for her. Just mourn the loss of what will never be and be open to new possibilities. definitely leave her be.
2007-03-23 20:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Adelie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It almost sound like she was either married, or going through a bad spot with her significant other. Even if this isn't the case, she is clearly making it evident that she isn't ready for the relationship.
I would send her an e-mail letting her know that you don't know why her behavior towards you changed so drastically. Tell her that, unless she gives you good reason not to, you are moving on. Let her know that she can call you if she has anything that she wishes to say to you. However, you may have company over if you should find someone else that you are interested in dating.
Do not accuse her of anything! No matter what your suspicions are, just make a clear break of it. If she tells you the reason why, so be it. However, do not wait or depend upon her doing so. She made her decision and now has to live with it...
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2007-03-25 07:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mark V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask her why? If you already did that, odds are, you didn't do anything wrong and she's got something wrong with her. Most women, even if you did do something wrong, would have the decency to tell you what it is. You know? The more I think about it, it sounds like she did you a favor.
How did she tell you, anyway? Was it in an email? There's a possibility, if it was, instead of over the phone, that her ex has somehow hacked into her email from another computer, knowing what she would probably use as a password, and sent you the email himself from her account.
2007-03-23 22:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u done something wrong or said something that you shouldn't. and maybe it's not even u at all. what u need to do is call her and leave a mess asking what u did wrong, and say that u are sorry and ask her to talk about it and go from there and ask her to forgive you and give another chance. u can also sit and write her an e-mail telling her how u feel about her and what u really want in a relation ship and what ever u do tell her the truth cause trust me gurls can tell when a guy is lieing to them. good luck, sign baby gurl....
2007-03-23 20:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by nellys_gurl_2009 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Weirdo. She may just either be scared or confused as to what she wants. If you said that she was the one that pushed the relationship, then I'm not sure what her problem is. My take is if someone starts something, they better damm well be able to finish or at the very least be able to explain themselves. I hate when people start something and don't care to finish it but just leave it hanging in the air...You gotta ask her straight up, she owes u at least that much.
2007-03-23 20:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Noodles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there any way that you may have said the wrong thing and pissed her off? Maybe you ment to say one thing and it came out another...
I heard horror stories about crazy chicks but I have never actually dealt with one. I guess I'm hoping that maybe it's just a misunderstanding.
2007-03-23 20:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Cherry Darling 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants to have time to think things through. perhaps, things have been a little too fast for her. give her some time to think. contact her again after a week or two. then clear it out with her.if she really doesn't want to see you anymore, then give her up.
2007-03-23 20:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She's either found someone new.. or she already had someone in her life. Consider yourself lucky.. you get to get out now.. before it became to complicated.
2007-03-23 20:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by miss amy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its that simmple. i mean i think she is quite open and straight fwd. what part of leave me alone dont u understand.
2007-03-23 20:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by braille 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Respect her wishes.....females are sometimes fickle. ..they are in it just for the challenge & nothing more.....don't talke it to personal....move on.
2007-03-23 20:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by simplesimon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋