plz all look at this he is ma friend and need help plz?

Question

I know a girl from 7 months now but I dont see her alot maybe 1 time a month but I talk with her alot on telephone or email, she told me that she have a bf but I don belive that I don know why when I see her the last time she sat beside me and she touched my arm and she made me went with her beside window (me and her alone) and talk, I feel after I see her that she changed alot with me couz when I visited her the last time she called me 5 times that day and the last call was in 2:30 am and said that she cant sleep, but when I didnt see her she didnt call at all.. me just callin I know that am crazy but what can I do to know
sometimes she talked about her bf to me and there is one time she asked me do u love me but in that time may be I didnt interested on her so I said no and for over 20 days she kept ignoring me and dont talk to me even on the net when she saw me she signd out but now we back as usual just on da telephone, I wana to know if she love me and his bf is a fake help plzz

Answer 1

Sounds to me like she is definitely interested in you, and would like to see more of you, but I can't figure out from your question whether or not you really want to be with her -- if she didn't have a boyfriend, would you want to be her boyfriend?? Cuz if that's what's holding you up from trying harder to be with her, don't let that stop you!! Sometimes girls say they have boyfriends becuz then they don't have to worry about the guy trying to hit on them, but if this girl is asking you if you love her, I don't think that's the case! I think you two should get together and tell each other how you REALLY feel about each other, because if she ignored you for 20 days after you told her you didn't love her, she must have SOME kind of feelings for you, man!! What have you got to lose?? Go for it if you want it!!

Answer 2

Tell her that u love her, y do u want to hide u r feelings
she is in love with u, she has no bf she is pretending so to avoid u(or to make u feel the way u r now so that u will take more interest in her) bcoz u made her feel u dont love her,

sit with her and speak openly and resolves u r issues other wise this is gonna become a big headache to u

Answer 3

this girl is confused. straighten her out first. ask her what her problem is. it seems she is not happy with her bf so she's looking for any attention elsewhere. if she really loves you, tell her to break it up with her bf first then you two get together.that is, if you also love her. if not, then just be friends with her. maybe all she needs is a shoulder to cry on. clear it up with her, man.

Answer 4

I think she may feel neglected by her bf and she is trying to love you and see if you have the same feeling. be aware in such situation coz you may be the onew ending up breaking the couples.