This whole time I've been delusional. I thought he had feelings for me.... but turns out I'm the only one. This hurts. What should I do?
2007-03-23 19:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's misinterpretation instead of delusion. Sometimes people give off mixed signals, and you shouldn't beat yourself up over it. Sure it's a let-down to find someone has no feelings for you, but that happens a lot to people and you've just got to learn to get over it and move on and try again. Don't hold your heart on your sleeve and instead wait a long time before you fall for someone so you can be sure of what or how they are feeling. And, conversation and lots of it is what brings out the information you need to hear. Replacing one person with another is the answer, so get busy dating others.
2007-03-23 19:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him, and move on. After time you will find someone else that you will have feelings for as sure as the sun comes up in the morning.
2007-03-24 02:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by jthessen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing to do in this situation. Believing in yourself is the best answer I can give you. Say to yourself "His Lose" and move on. You do not need someone else to define who you are. You are someone worth loving and if he does not appreciate it then he would not be good for you anyway. Best Wishes, stay special.
2007-03-24 02:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sergeant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goosh, don't you hate it when that happens? Boys are stupid - simply move on - it's hard but...if you really like him, you can always play the "ignoring" and "hard to get/other guys like me game" but i don't know if it's sincerely gonna change how he feels about you - ill tell you it'll make him chase you more but i don't think you'd want that....if he were to want you more, it would be because you cares for you more than the other girl...just...move on...you'll be fine
2007-03-24 02:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to everyone during their lives. Move on. It is obvious it was not meant to be. It will hurt, but there are better guys out there for you. His loss. Your gain.
2007-03-24 02:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by godre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it takes time to get over it /heal
but just dont rush to things something just happen 4 a reason
good luck! =0
2007-03-24 02:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean what should you do?
Go the movies, take up square dancing .... do whatever you'd like but move on.
2007-03-24 02:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, hes playing with your mind, say 2 words to him then leave
2007-03-24 02:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make fun of him
2007-03-24 02:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by i know all about music software! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.videojug.com/film/how-can-i-tell-if-he-is-attracted-to-me
2007-03-24 02:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋