Is my EX finally over me..........?

Question

I saw a picture of my ex-boyfriend with another girl and it kinda bothered me. I saw the picture on his facebook account. I mean I dunno why I felt kinda hurt? We only dated for a month, then HE ended it saying he was busy, and we never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. It seems lke he's a player. But he was my first bf and first kiss so could that be why it bothered me? Girls have u seen pics of your ex with another girl and if so did it bother u too? How did you get over the pic and not care? I don't understand why I still can't get over my ex-bf. I mean I never gave him my virginity so why do I feel still kinda attached & why do I hold a soft spot for him in my heart? His staus on facebook says that he's single so do you think the girl in the pic was just a friend? Also, on msn he was listening to PERsian music and he's NOT persian but I am. I never introduced him to persian music & I know he never listens to this kind of music, So does it mean hes thinking of me?

BTW he still says hi to me on msn sometimes & last month he called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. BUt I dunno if he's dating anyone. Does he still have feelingsa for me, even if its a little?

Answer 1

First, I think he is still single. Second, I think you're still not over him because you LOVED him and he was your first boyfriend. Third, I think he still likes you but can't commit with you because guys nowadays like girls who can have sex with them even before marriage.

Get over the picture, I think he just posted it so you'll be jealous and get back to him.

Answer 2

He might've needed the sex and knew u wouldn't go against your beliefs. Of course he was your ist something so u are gonna still care. Let me put it this way, i broke up with my ex 2yrs ago and it still bothers me to not know who he might be dating. I can't let him go. Even after i dated 2 other guys and got real serious with one i still kept in daily contact with my ex. Another thing that could be your issue, he broke up with u do u weren't ready to end things yet. u r probably left with questions that only he can answer. its always hard to see him with someone else. The music thing, yeah i think he was trying to get close to u somehow. But if he called to take u to the movies, there is something there and u should look into it. ASK HIM

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Marriage is sacred & you are a wise child.God instituted marriage & you sure would find favour from HIM, in your present situation.
Going out as a friend is no harm,but you need to be alert & wise to his moves.
At times is is good to share some news about your friends to your parents & I am sure your parents would sence if something is fishy.
If not having sex with you made him become busy there after - His motives are very clear.

Answer 5

Reminds me of that song that goes...

I will go down with this ship
And I won't put my hands up and surrender
There will be no white flag above my door
I'm in love and always will be

And when we meet
Which I'm sure we will
All that was there
Will be there still
I'll let it pass
And hold my tongue
And you will think
That I've moved on....

Answer 6

you are still nt over him yet...n u still hv some place 4 him in ur heart...and first love is always the hardest to forget anyway,take your time...he will be out of ur mind eventually