I saw a picture of my ex-boyfriend with another girl and it kinda bothered me. I saw the picture on his facebook account. I mean I dunno why I felt kinda hurt? We only dated for a month, then HE ended it saying he was busy, and we never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. It seems lke he's a player. But he was my first bf and first kiss so could that be why it bothered me? Girls have u seen pics of your ex with another girl and if so did it bother u too? How did you get over the pic and not care? I don't understand why I still can't get over my ex-bf. I mean I never gave him my virginity so why do I feel still kinda attached & why do I hold a soft spot for him in my heart? His staus on facebook says that he's single so do you think the girl in the pic was just a friend? Also, on msn he was listening to PERsian music and he's NOT persian but I am. I never introduced him to persian music & I know he never listens to this kind of music, So does it mean hes thinking of me?
2007-03-23 18:54:48 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW he still says hi to me on msn sometimes & last month he called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. BUt I dunno if he's dating anyone. Does he still have feelingsa for me, even if its a little?
2007-03-23 18:55:22 · update #1
Oh hun, that's natural. I broke up with a cheating ex over a year and a half ago and it still kills me to hear things about him. I seriously want him to be miserable without me. I think we all think that of our exes sometimes. It's a part of our ego. You'll get over it. It hurts because even though you might not love the person or anything, it's still a blow to the ego if you see them moving on with their life.
There's no way to tell if the girl in the pic is his friend or not. If you ask him, he'll know you were looking at his facebook account which could make you look a little bonkers so, don't do that. Just tell yourself it's a friend and don't obsess over it. If your ex broke up with you for a lame reason like being busy, odds are he's over you. He might just like Persian music all of the sudden. Again, no way to tell.
Just try to move on and don't obsess over what's going on in his life. You can't control it and you can't stop it. The world keeps turning and people move on. You have to do the same or you'll go insane.
2007-03-23 19:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i mean i think its normal having feelings for him he was ur first and for a girl thats really special..and yeah i have seen a pic of my ex with another girl and yeah i wont lie it did kind off bother me but i think it was because i still cared for him but i know that it wasent the same...as for him still liking you plz dont get ur hopes up because it hurts twice *** bad if its not what u expected...just let him come to you if he does feel something.... GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-24 02:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Cruz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every female will have feelings when she sees her ex... but move on and find someone else, life is too short 2 be with out love, but it's totally ok 2 still feel somthing for him. I have mixed feelings of my first kiss and that was 5 years ago.
2007-03-24 02:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he invited you to the movies and hears to your music, then i think he still holds some feelings for you.
2007-03-24 01:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Ariana*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me. YOU ARE NOT HOT!
if you actually were, you would have picture of yourself.
2007-03-24 01:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋