why is my ex so obsessive when he's the one who dumped me?

Question

I had a long-distance relationship with a guy that lived about an hour away, and after about two months of us being together, he decided to break up with me and get a new girlfriend because he could never see me. we talked on the phone about every 3 days when we were together, but now he won't stop calling me. He calls me every night at exactly 9:00 when we both have free minutes on our cell phones. i don't know why he would be so obsessed with me after we broke up when he broke up with me and he wasn't even that obsessive to begin with. can anyone help me?

Answer 1

easy, he's obssesed cause' he probably realized he let a good thing go. If you feel happy with yourself now that he's gone, it's his lost don't go back with him but if u miss him then ask him what's up. Most likely he regrets letting u go but in the end it's your decision.

Answer 2

He sounds like he wants to keep you as a back up. Why he's doing this, maybe insanity, maybe psychotic, who really knows? Regardless, ignore his stinky butt, he called it off, and you're better off without him.

Don't answer the phone, it won't do anything to your minutes (if you have free minutes) and eventually he'll get tired of being ignored. Just be tough, and just say no!!!

Answer 3

it can happen-yet he and you both it is important to do what my x g/f and i did before we even met so we have had a true friend ship =ask Jesus "Jesus come into my heart and direct my life, forgive my sins and help me, be my friend, amen." He said he would in Revelation 3 vs 19&20 now she and I still have Jesus and didnt make each other into God the most important thing in our life.

Answer 4

i would watch out if i where you because on dateline if you ever watch it a woman had a man that was obsessed with her and he killed her.turned he was gay and wanted her identity.

sorry if that scares you!