I'm not leaving my boyfriend, i love him. But girls turn me on and he always says girl on girl action is hot. He doesnt know i think i might be, but i have joked around and said "im bi" he was like "it's fine sweet heart, i love you". Im not gonna date a girl but would it be cheating if i made out with one? And i dont want my friends 2 disown me. And i seriously think i am cuz girls hooking up turns me on too, and i really want 2 make out with another girl. Is it ok 2 be in love with ur boyfriend and be bi but not date girls and just hook up with them? HELP! PLEASE ANSWER...
2007-03-23 18:36:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are perfectly normal. It's ok to explore your sexuality. If you want to be true to your boyfriend though, you need to discuss it with him and not do anything he doesn't agree with. If he is ok with the making out, then its ok, if he's not, then it's cheating.
2007-03-23 18:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you need to explore whatever makes you happy. It isn't about him right now. Respect your relationship but figure it out. Let him join in and keep in mind that in all fairness if you are with other ...whether they be men or women... he should be allowed the same. If you want to be alone with another person he should be allowed the same regardless of gender or orientation. If you can't allow him that then it is not a evenly balkanced relationship and it will cause problems. Oh, and a friend had this situation once. No matter how much you enjoy it let him know that he is needed or you'll face some seriious issues. Good luck and have fun.
2007-03-23 18:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...i don't think you should cheat on your boyfriend whether it's with a girl or a guy. I'm sure if you tell your boyfriend he will be understanding and will probably suggest a three-some or something. I think if your boyfriend is aware of you being bi and maybe if he thinks it's okay if you hook up with girls then it will be alright. But i definitely don't think it would be a great idea to just start making out with chicks behind his back. He won't appreciate that.
2007-03-23 18:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by K8tgry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u need to open up to ur bf abt this cos u see, u were like 'joked around' when u declared. well some guys might be happier if their ladies were bi but its best you really be honest and serious when bringing it up to him.
u can mention that its love that is bringing u guys together but its probably plain naughty to be hooking up with girls. U both might enjoy doing the same thing together, who knows
2007-03-23 18:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys think Bi girls are hot and would not have
any problem with her bringing a g/f home for a 3some.
Don't cheat on your b/f with a girl....Cheating is cheating..
Just be thankful that he probably won't mind if you introduce
one into your relationship with him...
2007-03-23 18:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its ok, because i had a boyfriend and i told him girls sometimes turn me on, and he said its fine if u hook up with them, he is like "heck, call me wen ur planning to" i laughed. but to me it isnt cheating and like u said, its fun making out with other girls. Im the same way, ill make out but i will never go out with a girl. =D
2007-03-23 18:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My opinion: Talk with your boyfriend about your desire to make out with a woman. If it's okay with him, then it's not cheating. It's possible he may later become jealous and change his mind, though, so keep the lines of communication open. Good luck.
2007-03-23 18:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Winnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... it might be considered cheating because your having an affair out of your established relationship. however, if your boyfriend sees no problem in you 'hooking up' with other chicks, then by all means hook up... but if you look at it from the outside it would be considered cheating
2007-03-23 18:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by nickname 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be harsh but I doubt that you love your boyfriend. You seem to be more 'in love' with sex. I say this because you sound like you want to experiment with other females. If you were truly in love you wouldn't even think about cheating. Why don't you join a gym or take long walks. You really need to clear your head. Please THINK before you act because someone could get hurt ... and it could be you.
2007-03-23 18:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK it would be cheating if he wasn't in on the Acton and if your bi you need to tell him its not a joke and see where it goes from there
2007-03-23 18:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋