So I've been really close friends with this guy for years. I've grown to love him so much, and this New Year's we had our fisrt kiss. We've been seeing eachother a lot since then, but tonight he stood me up for the second time this week. I am very frustrated and hurt, but very emotionaly invested in this reletionship. Is it okay to treat someone like this?
2007-03-23 18:30:26 · 14 answers · asked by kitmandoo22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not. L
2007-03-23 18:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by LUCY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not ok, but at the same time the way you look at his and your relationship may be different he might just see you as a kissing buddy while your falling in love with the guy, if you dont communicate your emtions to men, or guys if you will , you will be the one hurt and the end and not them, so save yourself while you can cuase he may have a g/f and a F. Buddy on the side that you might not know about.!
2007-03-24 01:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by ifucouldbeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust can go a long way. Try sitting back, relaxing a bit. You being nervous will not help things. Clinging is usually bad.
2007-03-24 01:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he have a good reason or are you just missing him now that you've finally got him in a relationship and you're so afraid of losing him you're clinging too tightly?
2007-03-24 01:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by nancydeanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Standing people up is never right. Even less when it's your friend. I think this guy owes you some fast explaining! It is NOT OK!
2007-03-24 01:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is totally not okay. i think if he stands you up once shame on him if he does it twice shame on you. there isn't any plausible reason to stand a person up now adays with all the communication methods available.
2007-03-24 01:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put "NO" If he doesn't respect you enough to show up for a date he will never respect you, which means it will only get worst!
2007-03-24 01:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by mrrobertstv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not ok to trust someone who stands you up. that is disrespectful, no matter what your history is. Don't let your history overwhelm your present. It will ruin your future.
2007-03-24 01:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have never let someone who was that close to you on one level, get at you on the other level............
now youre screwed...........
forget him, got find three others and make yourself feel better
2007-03-24 01:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bad Robbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the man breath for once
2007-03-24 01:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Austin Powers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if yu love somebody...let him go......
if he comes back to yu he is all your...
other wise he was never yours....
be strong and let him go!!
2007-03-24 01:33:54 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋