i'm in 9th grade next year andim kind of hectic about dating an older guy since he'll rush sex
so what age do they just
grow some balls
2007-03-23 18:15:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i shouldn't have said grow balls
but still!
id rather say hell no than date some 3 foot hyperactive FREAK
2007-03-23 18:20:01 · update #1
i didn't use any words wrong so go **** a tree
2007-03-23 18:22:33 · update #2
holy crap dude, i never said i want to have sex
quite the opposite actually
2007-03-23 18:25:19 · update #3
After you spread you're legs!!!!
2007-03-23 18:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by J B 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Aren't you a bit too young to have sex? I'm a guy, and to tell you the truth, if that older guy wants to have sex fight now, he hasn't grown up. Hate to admit, guys really do think about sex, but some not as much as others. Yeah, I do think about it, but it doesn't mean I wanna do it right now. Hell, I haven't even done it! Anyways, I wouldn't look for an older guy, because he'll pretty much think you're easy and might take advantage of that. Oh, and about immaturity, yes, a lot of us aren't mature, but would you rather have a boring-*** guy who looks down on people or a guy who at least likes to play around just to see you laugh and smile, even if it means he might act like a kid?
2007-03-24 01:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have control over the sex issue and no one should be allowed to rush you into anything until you are ready and I sincerely hope that you do not think that you are ready in the 9th grade.You are just really beginning to experience life, take your time have fun without rushing into anything to deep or serious for a few years. Take time to learn yourself and find out who you are before you find out what you want in a guy. How can you know what type of guy you like until you first learn enough about yourself.
2007-03-24 01:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol That would be NEVER. Kidding. All guys are different. Some are mature and some just act mature and fall apart at the first sign of stress. There's no real age or any event that makes someone grow up. Everyone is different.
2007-03-24 01:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you are way to young to be having sex. i think u mite already know but i think u should take a step bak and realize that any guy who would have sex with u at this age and risk your life does not love you. he only wants u for his pleasure. and believe me sumday when youre married you will realize that the greatest gift that you could have givn your spouse was your virginity. i say u dont need him. and if u want to give yourself away then please just make sure hes tested because if u get an std u kids will get it too. i hope u take to heart what im saying because if u do then u will be very happy wth yourself in the future. kiss the sky and look forward to better days.
2007-03-24 01:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by tomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, some guys never grow up, they just get older! But if you are worried about dating guys who might try to rush you into having sex, remember, You are always in control of you -- you might not be able to change someone else's behavior, but you can always stick to your own values and say no until you are really ready for that step --- if a guy tries to pressure you into having sex before you are ready, he's probably not really the guy for you!! Keep looking until you find the guy who cares as much about your needs and your comfort level as he does his own!! Believe me, they ARE out there!
2007-03-24 01:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Pearl's oldest daughter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Hun but the majority of adolescents don't ever mature I know guys in their 40s that haven't grown up yet
just take you're time and be patient you will find someone mature and if you are lucky he will not rush you just focus on school for now
2007-03-24 01:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by sentrysharpshooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMM we have balls and not all guys just want sex only the man whores and dnt worri so maibee if they are rushing it you are having relationships with the wrong guys dont blame all guys for what 5 or six guys do :)
2007-03-24 01:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by PoPtOp69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey so guys never do. In general, once a guy hits puberty sex is always on his mind. It really never goes away for men, there is a primal instinct thing going on.
If you wait and do not give in to sex then you will appreciate your first time much more.
2007-03-24 01:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by bradzb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see where you're using some words you don't understand or use properly, i.e. "hectic" and "balls". But in answer to your question, guys never fully mature. And, guys love sex forever. If you don't want that then it's up to you to say "no".
2007-03-24 01:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never ever ever! Remember that men will always in someway act like a child. So if you wait for them to mature you will be waiting a long long time!
2007-03-24 01:20:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋