okay they dont kno each other but their both named Jamal lol one jamal wants 2 do it on spring break the other one wants to do it this weekend I dont know what to do I like them both!!!! a lot Ive known one for a year and the other 2 years what do I do am I even ready for sex?
2007-03-23 18:07:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you cheat on me I will crush you!!!
Love, Jamal
2007-03-23 18:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tyrone Biggums 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you are asking if you are ready for sex, then the answer is NO!
Is not about who you have sex with, but about how to take care of yourself and be protected all the time and know and accept the consequences of having sex.
If you know everything about pregnancy, STD, different kind of protection, and at least the basics on how to have sex, and how to avoid being used by guys just for sex, then you should be ready, and it only now takes your decision if to go ahead or not.
Are you over 18? Are those guys? Be careful if you are not, and more if you are not and they are. It is all illegal and can get then and you in trouble with the police.
And don’t forget, the only way to be safe 100% is not to have sex. But we all know that is almost impossible, and more today. But still, you must understand that, and be prepared for any mistake, and be an adult and accept the consequences should you get pregnant or get a STD.
And be also careful with your feelings. Most guys just want to have sex for their sexual pleasure, that’s it. They might like you, but they are more interested in themselves and how to get a girl naked. Is nature and we can’t avoid it. So you have to be aware of that because otherwise, you might get hurt after you find out they just wanted to have sex for that: sex.
To have sex or not, with one of then or both, or have a threesome if you want, is all up to you. The main thing here is for you to decide what is best for you and not for then.
Be careful, be safe, and if you decide to do it, have fun and enjoy it.
2007-03-23 18:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT.... No honey, that is the most important gift u will ever have 2 give some one. U WILL REGRET IT, and sex really isnt all that wonderful. Give it 2 someone u love dearly and trust and want 2 spend 4 ever with. And it's usually more beautiful if u and that person u love are both virgins. PLEASE DON'T HAVE SEX WITH ANY ONE OF THOSE DUMB *** GUYS!!!! Picture this... you and this perfect guy that you love deeply are about 2 have sex and he's a virgin. He says "im so glad i can give u this gift of my virginity, i hope it shows u how much i love u and i want to grow old with u. Be my first and only." You cry because u gave it 2 some *** hole guy @ spring break who doesnt give a **** about u or ur feelings. U will NEVER get 2 show that one person ur love 4 him if u give 2 some random guy. I PRAY 2 GOD U DONT HAVE SEX WITH ANY ONE OF THEM, (and it hurts like hell!!!!) Please, please, please save it 4 some one VERY special who u love...i hope u take my advice
2007-03-23 18:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the question, are you ready for sex? If you aren't ready for sex, then just tell them both and if they like you then they will wait until you are. Now days you have to be careful because of all the diseases out there. If you do have sex with one of them or both then be in sure you use protection. Pray about it and God will let you know what to do. Which one do you care the most about. And think about what they will think of you after. I think you need to set down and talk to them both about this big step they want you to take.
2007-03-23 18:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Deborah N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself a few questions first. How do you feel about spending money on baby clothes and never clothes for yourself? Do you want to buy teddy bears and cutesy stuff for a baby or do you want to go to college and live a normal life and then bring in the children? If the thought of a child turns you off, you aren't ready for sex. Don't have sex because of some guy that wants you to. If he loves you he will wait until you are ready.
2007-03-23 18:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by SquirrelBait 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you? I don't feel teenagers should be having sex. and you really shouldn't be having sex with either one of them. even if they are a friend or not. you don't know exactly how many people they may have slept with and then how many those people have slept with and so on. there's a lot of stds and whatnot out there.
Personally, if you're questioning yourself about if you're ready for sex or not, it's more than likely you're not. I suggest you to wait a few more years and save it for a serious boyfriend or your husband.
Just dont do something that you dont want to. and dont let anyone convince you that you should have sex with someone if you are unsure.
2007-03-23 18:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh! It doesn't sound like this is any big deal to any of you. Wait. Hold on for someone who knows how special you are is really special to you. This isn't something you can "undo", so give it a lot of thought. And if and when you do go forward, be certain that you take steps to protect yourself against both pregnancy and disease.
2007-03-23 18:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by PJPeach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie I can tell you are really nervous, which is one indication you are not ready for sex. I'm not sure how old you are, but I am 17 and I know I'm not ready for sex yet. I can't tell you what to do or not to do, but if you do choose to have sex with one or both of them, please just protect yourself. Don't have sex with them if they are not willing to wear a condom. You don't want to find out you have a disease or got pregnant, because at that point it would be too late. I wish you luck girl; email me if you need to talk.
2007-03-23 18:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm, you seem confused, so i'm going to offer you some good advice. i don't think you should rush into sex just yet, wait until you find someone you really like and genuinely want to be with. i understand you're a young women, and you're curious, but you'll have plenty of time in the future to meet quality guys who will treat you right, so don't settle for something if you're not sure.
2007-03-23 18:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not. Wait till you at least find someone you love. Believe me there will always be some guy who wants to have sex with you. It is a given. Wait till it is someone special to you and that loves you. These two guys sound like they just want to get into your pants. And you certainly don't sound like either one of them is someone you really care about. Be smart, don't let yourself be used.
2007-03-23 18:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your personal decision.
Are you conservative?
Do you wish to remain one till you're married?
Or you're open to it so long you like the guy?
Are you adventurous?
And what if the guys found out you step on both boats?
Do they love you for who you are?
Or just want to hang out with you for their special request?
It's all up to you. Once you've made the decision, be ready to face the consequences & don't blame others if the situation did not turn out rosy as you expected.
2007-03-23 18:14:42 · answer #11 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋