Men...if you have expressed words as " I love you " or " I think I'm falling in love with you" within first week or several weeks. What was woman's response...the outcome...why the desire or felt need to express such emotions so soon ?
Sincerly and respectfully wondering.
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2007-03-23 18:06:02 · 6 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you answer...please explain the " why " of your answer...I'm sincerely desiring to understand this. For instance..." Diddly " you replied...yet did not explain the " why " of why you had wished you had...That would have been a help to understand. Thanks.
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2007-03-23 18:12:06 · update #1
Guys say, "I Luv You" to get into your pants!
They say it often and early.
It is the guy that doesnt say it till you been dating 6 months plus that is worth your time. If it isnt said by then hes not worth the time either.
2007-03-23 18:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Paradox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - I told her we were going to be married one day.
I was 16, she was 17 and we had been dating about two weeks. She thought I was joking, but I really meant it.
We both came from military families, so had moved around a LOT. The day we met my friend talked her into giving me a ride home from school since he had to get to his job. She was a total stranger, but we talked non-stop for about 3 hours. It was not awkward or uncomfortable in the least. We both felt like we had known each other our entire lives.
So, after a few weeks of mulling my declaration over and she realized I really meant it, she freaked out and dumped me. It was the week before Prom. (we went to it together anyway, but that's a whole other ugly story) Funny thing is, over the next summer, after no communication of any kind since Prom, she stopped by my house out of the blue and we went out for ice cream. We talked for hours, and agreed to figure out how to be friends, and to keep in touch (we were both heading off to college).
We did keep in touch. Writing letters, phone calls, and the occasional visit for 4 years. (both our parents had moved once again) After college I moved to a city near hers and we started occasionally dating. After two years, she moved to my city and we started dating seriously. A year later I proposed to her on the same day I met her, on the very spot I met her - and she said yes. (Note: I did NOT gloat that I had been right lo those many years ago!)
We have been married 14 years and have 3 kids - and a fourth on the way any day now, which is why I am wide awake and typing at 1:40 in the morning. So while it did ultimately work out...she was right to be freaked out. I like to think that she knew on some level that I was right, but at that age it was too much too soon to be putting out "marriage". It's possible that I'm just extremely lucky. I think I am!
Sorry for the novella! I am looking forward to reading other responses to your question.
2007-03-24 01:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by C H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know every flower is not a rose,some girls like everything to fall in place very quickly.and some don't.if we talk about my girlfriend i expressed it within 5 days i met her,becoz on the fifth day when i met her,she started talking about a boy in her class.so i felt i will be in trouble.and when i did it she started laughing.and said "what the hell r u doing all these days".
2007-03-24 01:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by naresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not but if I knew then what I know now I would have.
2007-03-24 01:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Diddly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason woman are so crazy is because men are so stupid..........does this answer your question?
2007-03-24 01:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Splinter Cell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes,a starting point,and you;ll know if they are felling it as well
2007-03-24 01:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by game boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋