I have been at school with this guy since kindergarten(11yrs) and he has just changed schools. We were really good friends the whole time and we got on really well. My best friend, this guy and me always used to hang out and play music. Life was great until I worked out that I had feelings for him. I told him I liked him and he kinda avoided me for a day. I rung him up and apologised (he always hated confrontations of any kind) so we have just been 'friends' ever since. Now he's gone we keep in contact (I call him every few weeks). I still really really like him and have been out with a different guy (huge mistake) So I dunno what to do. Should I just leave it? Or should I continue living in the past and chasing lost dreams?Anyway any advise you could give me is much appreciated..... thanks
2007-03-23 18:01:02 · 7 answers · asked by random cookie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's great having a friend like this... I suggest you date others. Make a list of things you have to offer, things you would like in a person. Then go out and look for the right person for you. How do you know that this friend is really the one for you when you don't know what else is out there?
Always remember a true friend will always be a friend no matter what happens. It could be that he wasn't ready to deal with a relationship, or maybe thought of you as someone he could always depend on.
A person can loose tomorrow reaching for yesterday.
2007-03-23 18:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh crap no dont say 'get a life'.
um anyways i think you should really just wait..until anything happens. coz you know you cant really be with him anyways..phone relatinoships will never work im sorry. you should just pack him up at the back of your mind (not saying stop liking him) and just try to live life as if you never had any feelings for him ;). im sure there are alot of other guys out there...
for the moment :P
2007-03-24 01:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by bii. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget ur past and live in the present. No use of chasing a lost dreams, it will only hurt u nothing else.
2007-03-24 01:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should like for the future not the past, i think if it's meant to be as only friends then accpect it and keep it as that.
2007-03-24 01:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by jen. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life
2007-03-24 01:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by game boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get one with life their other fishies in the great blue seaa arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
2007-03-24 01:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
I'm going to tell you this right now.Either way you win.If you forget him,YOUR SINGLE!!!If you go get him you got the guy you like.good luck
2007-03-24 01:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋