waiting for a man that is involuntarily absent for the next 23 months. i've been waiting for 7 months already. we've been together for 3 years and have always had a wonderfull relationship, it's not 100% perfect, we do have our differences but have always been faithfull to each other, so am i crazy?
2007-03-23 17:58:18 · 20 answers · asked by rickys_lil_mama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOVE LOVE LOVE.... Don't listen 2 any one if they say ur crazy. It will prove 2 him that u really do love him if u wait, u dont want those 3 years 2 be a "waste" of ur time do u? Do you want to be together when ur 70 years old with wrinkles and gray hair- but still loving each other and walking down memory lane together? If "yes" then wait and stay faithful... I believe u can. But if ur answer is "no" then move on and explain 2 him why. Life is short and if u arent with the person ur gonna stay with 4ever then u should be out looking for him. But I do say it's LOVE!
2007-03-23 18:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in love & hoping that the relationship will still work out after 23 months of involuntary waiting. Let this period of waiting be a test for your relationship with him. Can it withstand the waiting? Can both of you continue to be faithful? It will be good to see where the relationship stands after all that waiting.
Of course, be prepared of uncertainties. So you'll be ready to tackle new challenges ahead, should anything happen. Reserve some part of your heart for yourself instead of putting your whole heart into a relationship where you're not even sure you're insane or in love.
Put in your heart bit-by-bit till you're sure both of you are meant to be & will be together everafter, you know. Reserve your heart & yourself for the special someone whom you're sure that he deserves you.
2007-03-24 01:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that crazy feeling hun is LOVE <3 Don't worry about it when your in love the hard times you go through might suck but its worth it in the end Hang in there hun your doing great!
2007-03-24 01:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by VELLAGURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on his involuntary absence. The resons for this absence probably illustrate aspects of his character. You could be both. If thats the case I hope you have a good sense of humor to round it all out.
2007-03-24 01:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, you are in love. Secondly, only people in true love feel crazy when waiting, so that is, actually, quite a good omen. Keep waiting girl, he'll come back!
2007-03-24 01:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Juan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love
2007-03-24 01:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by yu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time you became unfaithful....hint hint
2007-03-24 01:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think you are crazy, love is crazy in it self because it make us do things that we would never do in normal real life, that it's love and it's best when it's been returned...
2007-03-24 01:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by Monica A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the same thing. To be in love is to be in sane. You don't need us to tell you what to do. Follow your heart, do what you need to do. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 01:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by sapientia2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly why is he absent and that answer alone will give you some perspective
2007-03-24 01:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by HRcutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋