I met a 25 yo girl at church last month. she seems confident and she keeps wanting to start a conversations with me.
She asked for my email and phone number one night which I politely gave her so she can send me additional info on the group which she did. why did she need my phone number?
Last week when she was leaving church with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I took no notice at the time.
Last night I saw her at church gathering. We made about 5 silent eye contacts in which she keeps looking away. She started small talk with me again. During the night I notice we kept making silent eye contacts. She would look away quickly. but when she was leaving she hardly gave me a nice goodbye like she did with everyone else.
This girls actions are confusing...
2007-03-23 17:53:33 · 17 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She likes you. She's just a little immature.
2007-03-23 17:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She gave you the green light on interest in you but you seem to be stalling. I think its your actions that are confusing her. Why couldnt you go up a give the nice goodbye? She is probably waiting for you to show your interest in her. Everyone fears rejection so she probably is ecpecting you to chase her now. Either ask her for coffee (as was suggested) or tell her straight out you appreciate her frienship but are not looking for anything more.
2007-03-23 18:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Paradox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that she likes you but it doesn't sound like you're giving her much positive feedback. She is probably worried about getting rejected and is trying to feel you out. Try flirting wit her a little bit and see how she reacts. If she flirts back chances are she is interested if she seems cold then let it be. If she does flirt back and you're interested you may have to ask her out though because most religious girls tend to be shy and unwilling to make the first move.
2007-03-23 18:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you. a lot. sometimes when a girl likes a guy, actually, almost every time, she acts completely different around him than with everyone else. she might be the loudest person in the room with everyone else, but when it comes to the guy she likes, she could clam up and be the shyest thing ever. she was shy to say goodbye to you because she likes you. i know, it's confusing, but that's just how girls are. you should ask her out on a date, and she will probably stop being so shy because she knows that you like her, too.
2007-03-23 18:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she wants you in the group but doesn't want to get personally involved. She probably wanted your number for group reasons. She probably starts the conversation for group purposes only. I don't see anything confusing there, and I don't see that she's leading you on at all.
2007-03-23 17:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT's pretty much this way with all of us girls (sorry) but it seems to me like she's still trying to figure out if she likes u or not. The is no harm in going for it and asking her out if u want to otherwise just be observant for a while and see if she becomes more flirtatious.
2007-03-23 17:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 08:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not her actions that are confusing. She had given you all sorts of signals that she is interested in you, yet you do nothing. Don't you like her? Why don't you let her know? Right now she thinks you aren't interested.
2007-03-23 17:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The eye contact is her way of flirting. She wants you to pursue her. By slighting you, she's trying to get you to do just that. Believe me, I do this to guys when I'm interested.
2007-03-23 17:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by micha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably isnt a church girl after all and is just there just to trap you so be cautious those are the worst girls the ones that act like innocent once dont be fooled
2007-03-23 17:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol i used to do the same thing at church there we wants u 2 approch her try that
2007-03-23 18:00:24 · answer #11 · answered by alexa c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋