my friend likes my boyfriend and everyone knos bout it.....i dont kno wat to do.....she is still tryin and she even posted it on yahoo answers for help.....how can i trust her now?
2007-03-23 17:46:23 · 13 answers · asked by ellie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey ellie. you know, HE cares for you, and only you. Yeah, she's there, but the person who he really cares about is you, and you need to understand that. after all, you are a couple. SHE is not with him, and you are. Just give her some time, and she'll understand. i'll see what i can do, for i do not wish to disrespect either of you. this feud is foolish and selfish and should not have happened in the first place. sure, she talks to him more often since she sits next to him, but when it comes down to it, he chose you, not her. do NOT let this get in the way of your friendship, especially since we are graduating soon. Good luck, best wishes
2007-03-23 20:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust her! She doesn't care about you or your friendship! Sorry but that's how it is. X her out of your life! But if your friendship is more important than your relationship, talk to her, let her know what it's doing to you. Personally I don't think she's much of a friend to even follow through with pursuing your boyfriend. I do believe you already have the answer to your question, and know you are doing the right thing, let her go!
2007-03-24 00:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some friend you have... I can't even imagine how you must feel cuz I would never imagine doing that to one of my friends. Even if I liked her boyfriend I would accept that he is hers and let it go. It will be hard to trust her. You should tell her that this is bothering you and inform her that she needs to respect that he is your boyfriend so he is unavailable for another woman.
2007-03-24 00:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is being disrespectful to you and your relationship. She is also being disrespectful to herself, which you probably don't need to include in discussion but she is disrespectin' the relationship you and her have. She is damagin' the friendship and you might just have to part ways. It is hard to trust someone who is pursuin' someone you are involved with, it's absurd for a lack of better words.
2007-03-24 00:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you need to stop calling her a friend......just think about it there's that general rule that girls have.. any guy that you have dated or hooked up with is OFF LIMITS.....Well this is even worse your still with him.
Plus you never know what if one day she and him were alone something could happen if she wants him that bad. I would say just keep her out of your life.
2007-03-24 00:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Manda-Panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt trust her id tell her this is my boyfriend and you can not have him but dont try to e mean.go to your boy friend and ask him if he has feeling for her and if he says yes break up with him then if he says no tell him that you love him . i went through what your going through it was hard but to tell you the truth we are still together and i love him ...
2007-03-24 01:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by Chan G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust her so tell her to stop talking with you. I would trust the boyfriend though if he is being loyal to you through all this.
2007-03-24 00:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by kws504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be her friend anymore!!!!!!
If your boyfriend goes out with her then you will know he does not care for you. If you and your sweety are bound past infinity; then you have nothing to worry about. But if he does go out with her or anything along those lines. Cut him off like a nasty habit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-24 00:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by gutten abend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and your boyfriend are very serious/close/whatever, who cares who likes him? but if she is trying to take him from you, ditch her. jealous people are not your friends... if it's just a crush, she'll come back crying to you about how silly the situation was. she probably doesn't like him as much as you think she does, she's just insecure.
2007-03-24 00:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Casey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her point blank that you have a real problem with
the fact that she doing this. she not a friend you need to leave
her along. she get the message loud and clear.
2007-03-24 00:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋