when someone tells u they wont cheat how do u know!!?

Question

WHEN A SOMEBODY TELL U THAT THEY LOVE U HOW DO U KNOW.
HOW DO U KNOW IF SOMEBODY IS CHEATING ON U OR NOT !IS IT SOMTHING THAT THEY TELL AND U JUST BELIVIE IT OR IS IT SOMTHING U HEAR FROM FRIENDS AND FAMILY OR FROM THEMSELVES!!!
I MEAN WHAT MAKE U BELIEVE THEM? IS IT SOMTHING THAT U JUST KNOW WONT HAPPEND TO U !!!!!I MEAN OUT THERE IN THE WORLD ARE A WHOLE BUNCH OF FEMALE AND MALE SO HOW DO U KNOW.REALLY I THINK FEMALES ARE JUST THE SAME AS MALE THEY CHEAT WE CHEAT BUT HOW DO U KNOW ?!!!!!

Answer 1

WITH THE RIGHT PERSON, THE RIGHT TIME, THE RIGHT PLACE AND THE OPPORTUNITY IT WILL HAPPEN EVERY TIME. AND IF YOU THINK ANYONE IS ABOVE CHEATING AND IF YOU LIVE LONG ENOUGH YOU WILL SEE. IT IS NOT THAT PEOPLE SET OUT TO CHEAT, IT'S JUST THAT THAT COMBINATION ABOVE. WE ALL WOULD LOVE TO SAY AND BELIEVE WE WON'T CHEAT, WE ARE WEAK WHEN WE NEED TO BE STRONG.

Answer 2

You really don't know for sure if that somebody will be true to you. I believe my husband has never cheated on me. I know I have never cheated on him. We've been together 25 years. I think prior to getting together with someone you really have to look at the type of person they are. If they are the type that messes around with just anybody or everyone, I for one would not believe or would have a hard time believing that they would not cheat on me just because they said so. If they crave attention from the opposite sex I would think that would be a red flag too. you know the ones that will be with you but checking out everyone else when they are with you. When I was dating I never liked men who were players. Men who were so good looking they thought they were Gods gift to women. Or at least they believed they were. Now don't get me wrong my husband is handsome....however getting womens attention was not number one on his list of things to do. He liked hunting, fishing, drag racing and he spent most his time doing those things when he wasn't with me, in other words he wasn't out at some club looking for women. I never let myself get too comfortable however where I trust him completely, he is human after all, if I notice any difference in his behavior I would pay attention and find out for sure if there is something going on. I would not just put my head in the sand and say that could never happen to me.

Answer 3

I have been married twice, both ended because of the other person cheating. Sometimes it is hard to tell why people cheat, maybe they get bored, maybe they want more, maybe they are just totally clueless about what they need in a relationship.
By the time you know someone is cheating, then chances are it is to late.

Answer 4

People cheat. A high percentage of couples have one person that cheats. You don't know they are cheating. All you can do is hope that you are lucky, and you will either be someone who is not in the about 90% that cheats, or that you will never find out.

Answer 5

I guess it depends on your age as when you're over 18 (I guess) a person seems to have more knowledge about how to research the net, how to see who they are talking with on the net and what they are saying. In life at home usually if you have close friends they will be the ones to tell you, or family will tell you. But usually it's what a person says, how they talk about other people, how they look at other people when they are with you, how their friends react around you. You can also tell by their not remembering you on special occasions, or making a lot of excuses, changing their usual schedule, not being at work when they are supposed to be (when you try to call them and they're not there), or when you call them at home and they said they would be home but they aren't there, or when they changed a date you were supposed to go on and they said they were sick and you show up with chicken soup and they aren't home. Lots of little things, but you can tell though by how they act, what they say, etc.

How do you know if a person loves you? Because they are exclusively with you, because you're included in their life, because they make plans with you, because they want to be with you and hear from you, because they have introduced you to their parents, family and friends, maybe even go to church with you, show they care about you.

Answer 6

You don't know, you trust. Has this person lied to you before? To me, it's kinda like religion. People say they "know" something is true, that can't really be proven. Unless you're a stocker, which I hope you're not, you just have to trust. If you can't trust, maybe it's time you leave the relationship.

Answer 7

We don't know. you just need to take that risk. (if you want to) and if that person is cheating. the truth will come out in time. there are signs when your other half cheats. some of them are: when they stop having sex,come home late alot, or its just a gut feeling.

Answer 8

Life doesn't come with guarantees. Get to know the person enough to learn if they are sincere and trustworthy. And don't be so suspicious unless they give you a reason to be.

Answer 9

if u start ur relation with such doubts it can bnever successful.....trust on ur mate....and give time to both of you to understand each other...trust cnt be built in a minute.....it takes time...so be cool and let the things happen...except few...tk cr....good luck

Answer 10

You never really know sweety unless or couse you spy on him