when would be a good time to lose your virginity?

Question

if u wanted to

Answer 1

when you get married

Answer 2

When you are mature enough to talk about sex and all it acts seriously with your partner. If you can't keep from getting red-faced discussing it, how can you ever perform it? Besides, who wants to "do it" when your' partner doesn't know what you are thinking, feeling or wanting? No one, unless they expect the sex to be unfulfilling and just want to "do it" to say they have done it or are pressured into it. Whatever you do, don't feel pressured to have sex because other people are. Wait until you are ready and until you find someone who cares enough to take the time to listen to what you are feeling and vice versa, that will be the right time.

Oh, and if you like you can listen to the people that have answered "when you are married", but you and I both know that these people didn't wait until then. This is 2007 not 1957, no one I've ever known waited til' marriage!
Even if you're both virgins and using the pill, ALWAYS use a condom or another secondary form of birth control!
Good luck and I hope your first time is wonderful and worth the wait!

Answer 3

I lost my virginity when I was 14. For the longest time I didn't think it was a big deal. Then I realized that my promiscuity made sex just another thing. It isn't really special anymore. I'm not saying you should wait until marriage or anything, but really think about WHY you want to lose your virginity and if you really want your first time to be like. Even though it may not seem like that big a deal at the time, it might later. So just think about it before hand.

Thinking is your friend!

Answer 4

i used to agree with the after marriage thing. but i just recently lost mine at 18, and if your emotionally stable and can handle losing ur virginity, then i think you might be ready. but i do also have to say, that being emotionally stable also deals with how mature you are. some mature faster than others. so I'm not sure in that aspect, but i don't agree with 15, that is really young, so is 18, but it does also mean your legal... lol

i think if you think your ready, and you know there will be no regrets, and your over (16) then i guess, its a good time... and dont lose it to someone, who might potentially dump you soon, or who you know doesnt feel as strongly about you as you do them.... found that out the hard way, but still i dont regret it....

Answer 5

Before you do Know that Condoms and all other birth control methods are at best 97% effective when used correctly ( which less than 10% of the people do ).

Also condoms only decrease the incidence of STDs but doesn't provide full protection.

that is why with all the sex eduaction teenagers have these days teenage pregnancy is through the roof

Answer 6

U want to make sure it is the right guy so what better way to make sure of that is on your wedding night there is so much u can catch out there and when u get older you r going to wish u would of waited until your wedding night that is some thing special to give to your husband or wife

Answer 7

most likely when you're married. or if done some bad things ; ) maybe around 16-21 years old. but hey, everybody's time is different. there could be 40-year-old virgins out there for all i know, but when you think the time is right, you'll do it.

Answer 8

When you get married ofcourse. You seriously do because if you lose it before then and it doesnt work out between you and that person and then you finally meet the man you marry and you want to share that with him but you already gave it to someone else and you will feel really horrible. believe me.

Answer 9

People say when you're married but lets be realistic,if half of America did that we won't have baby daddies or "baby mamas" now would we.And half of them didn't wait until they got married so now whose the hypocrite?I say until you know for sure that you are ready.Make sure that you aren't being pressured and you absolutely care for this person.Remember use protection or bring your own,never assume that the other has protection or just because they shower daily that they don't have AIDS or HIV or STDs.Be smart wrap it up!Make your decision wisely

Answer 10

When you wont regret looking back on it and wished it happened with someone else. Trust me dont make the same mistake i did. Even if you think you love someone you have to be 100 percent sure that you ready to do this because you never forget your first.

Answer 11

When you know that the right person has come along and that everything that you are doing is the right thing and there will be no regrets....take your time and you will know when the time is right don't feel forced into something that you aren't sure of doing...when the time comes you know...and so will your partner.