Some say..quarrel too much in a relationship isn't good. Some say never quarrel also not good. What do u think?
2007-03-23 17:01:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all you should ask yourself, 'do i not want to fight, because i wouldn't want the relationship to end.' if that is the case, and something is bugging you, i would mention it to him. my relationship just ended, and we never ever fought.... but i could eventually feel the tension building... if you feel any tension at all you need to discuss it... im really not sure if any of that helped or made sense... maybe you guys are very compatible for each other. but im sure at some point you will disagree... and when that happens, it is def. not the end of the world.
lol, so overall, some quarrel is good. no quarreling means, that there might be a little too much of not communicating... but that is also just my view.
2007-03-23 17:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by allstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quarreling too much is definitely not good, because it simple shows these two people can't get along together at all, and disagree too much, and neither are willing to compromise. But never quarreling at all is also bad. It may lead to a sudden explosion one day that might be much more violent or worse than just a small quarrel that could have ended the situation a long time ago. All couples quarrel, it's just one of the many truths a person needs to face before he/she is truly ready for a relationship.
2007-03-24 00:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my man for 19 months. We were together for 14 before we had our first fight. We haven't had one since. Too much fighting in a relationship is definately not a good thing. BUT never fighting isn't good either. I know in my relationship I hold alot in and so does he. We've discussed this many times and both agree that some point, if we both don't stop biting our tongues and start telling the other when something is bothering us, we're going to explode. I can tell you that for the most part, we're fine. I think I don't say anything b/c I feel that there's no point in starting a huge fight over something pointless that is totally going to get blown out of proportion. Also, my man and I are both divorced and our previous relationships were rocky to put it mildly. After the fights I use to have with my ex-husband (most of which he turned violent) I guess I just don't want to fight anymore.
2007-03-24 00:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by ricksgrl2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that for 9 years so what is a problem in that, To me it sounds like one hell of a good relationship.
2007-03-24 00:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by David R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's unnatural. It's almost like they don't care about each other enough to fight. Because if you didn't care about a person or their opinions, it would be more like "Sure, whatever" to them no matter what they said. Of course, there are some rare people who agree on almost everything, so they don't fight as much. Congratulations to them, that's like next to impossible to find.
2007-03-24 00:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by ....... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like heaven to me!
2007-03-24 00:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either they dont talk or they dont spend much time together.
2007-03-24 00:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by *) ayla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a very boring one...
nice, though.. but boring...
2007-03-24 00:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by rianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idk, I sort of have the same issue. 9 months and no fights hmmm.
2007-03-24 00:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋