I saw a picture of my ex-boyfriend with another girl and it kinda bothered me. I saw the picture on his facebook account. I mean I dunno why I felt kinda hurt? We only dated for a month, then HE ended it saying he was busy, and we never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. It seems lke he's a player. But he was my first bf and first kiss so could that be why it bothered me? Girls have u seen pics of your ex with another girl and if so did it bother u too? How did you get over the pic and not care? I don't understand why I still can't get over my ex-bf. I mean I never gave him my virginity so why do I feel still kinda attached & why do I hold a soft spot for him in my heart? His staus on facebook says that he's single so do you think the girl in the pic was just a friend? Also, on msn he was listening to PERsian music and he's NOT persian but I am. I never introduced him to persian music & I know he never listens to this kind of music, So does it mean hes thinking of me?
2007-03-23 16:58:39 · 16 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was lucky to have a nice Persian lady, but he F'ed up. Too bad for him, it's his loss. Get over it... someone better will always come along and you'll forget all about him.
2007-03-25 08:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by feralchilders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm a guy, so i might be the enemy here;). But I know exactly what you're talking about. Breaking up with an ex will leave you tender for months to come. He is probably hanging with another girl so that way it fills the void of not having a gf. Thats what a lot of guys do so that way they dont have to feel the seperation blues. Your best way to get over him is to not check up on him. As hard as it to do it just cut him out. Dont check his facebook, dont check his AIM. You'll always find little things that probably mean nothing to him (like a picture of a girl) and you'll automatically assume the worst. Go out with friends and stay busy. Think about the great things in life. Summers on the way! Good luck!
2007-03-23 17:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was your 1st boyfriend and kiss, that is why. That will always be in your heart. I saw a wedding announcement for my first boyfriend. Even though we were together almost 20 yrs ago, it still hurt because it should've been me. It may not make sense now, but it happened for the best. An ex is an ex for a reason. Keep on living, we know he is, why shouldn't you.
2007-03-23 17:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by kim45237 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa Whoa Whoa, you gotta slow down for a moment....
I know the feeling, I saw comments on my bf ex gf page and they were all about how beautiful she is. It made me feel very hurt and bothered and I found myself being in a bad mood for the rest of the day.
Its normal to be attached like that, the only way I got over it was by talking to him. I asked him if he still has feelings for her. (he said no) But maybe if you just talk to him and ask him about his love life and if hes moved on faster then you. If he cares about you then he'll understand and want to make you feel better.
Dont jump to conclusions about the music. He could be thinking about you, he could not be...
also Kuddos on not giving up your virginity to him, more girls need to keep that. Only when you loose it you realize how valuable it is. Or you could be a whore and just keep sleeping with ppl.....yeah....
Go us! we're virgins and proud!!
2007-03-23 17:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Human 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With feelings like you have girl, I'd say talk you gotta talk to this man. Why you holding back? You know you want him (not sexually... but maybe just you dig him) Sometimes you have to fight alittle and so what if there's another in his life right now don't feel sad, find it as a challenge and give it a try cuz if you don't try you will never know if it was meant to be.
2007-03-23 17:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sheris_Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sorry that sucks. She's probably not just a friend, or he wouldn't put it on his profile. You're going to feel attachment for him since he was your first boyfriend. The only real way to get over it is time and distraction. Get interested in new boys, your feelings for him will end eventually.
2007-03-23 17:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by ....... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi!hope you consider my answer even im a guy!
their are two possible xplanation on this first it would be exaduration or feeling to much attached!thats why you feel jelous coz you care for him its natural man do feel that way but nearly dont show!second is affection you kiss but havent hve sex!thats quite nice,but kissing can show everything it means your so intimate with him and maybe even thinkto give yourbody!as my personal xperience wen a guy kiss and fell pasinate for it he mean it!did you feel and passion wen you kiss?
to give you advise about the pic if you do love the guy you trust him,and to make it more clear about all issue on both of you ask him personally and try t listen to wat he would say then judges by the way he tell you!trust honesty and comunication is the basic of realtionship,
2007-03-23 17:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by vash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you like him so much and your a woman it's normal to get jealous.try to remember this picture was taken before he knew you.i wouldn't mention to him how you feel about this picture until you 2 are more serious good luck
2007-03-23 17:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only dated for a month, so you really don't have a big emotional investment in this guy. Let him go and find someone new.
2007-03-23 17:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was at my boyfriends house about a week ago, when he was digging through a shoe box of old pictures, he said ' oh god i have to get rid of these' i said 'what?' he said that they were old pictures of his last girlfriend, i told him that i wanted to see him, so he gave them to me. i went through about 5 pictures til i saw one of his head in her lap. i about lost it. i don't know why but it just erked me.
and the whole you can't get over him thing, well its because he was your first boyfriend, and especially your first kiss. I still feel a bit of me will alwasy love him because he was the first one that made me happy.. til he started cheating on me and all that crap. he might still think of you from time to time though... but that i don't know. but good luck over trying to get rid of me.
2007-03-23 17:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋