thats not what they need to notice, i'm a person not a talking chest. It makes me so mad!! why don't they just realize it's not all they need to worry about!
2007-03-23 16:53:40 · 12 answers · asked by kimberly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree. We as men should just close our eyes if we cant stair ladies in the eyes. I don't know why we do it. Some times i think its magnets, i don't know but i try my best not to do that. Cant say that it works. lol. but heck cant blame a guy for trying. But if they do stair i bet they are still listening unless they start to drool.lol. Well hope that helps. Good luck getting the guys to stop stairing. YEEHAW!!!
2007-03-23 17:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by LJD4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are guys , if you have a chest worth looking at they will look , if you do not have a chest worth looking at then they will stare at your butt , if you have nothing worth looking at then you would not be standing there talking to them ...I am not trying to be mean just real . most guys are like this as you will find out later in life, not saying it is right , but it is truth . They never grow out of it , however they do get more responsible when they grow up , such as working ,and paying bills (not always on time ) but then again they have a swimsuit edition calender on their desk at work also . and lets not forget the Snap On Tools calender in the garage or work shed at home . Men worship women ( well their bodies they do ) it is no secret ...then again not trying to be mean , I been with the same girl for 10.5 years ,and when I see an attractive woman around college age , I will say to her " honey would you look at that good lawed I wish I wasn't gettin old " ..sometimes she will go to the girl I was checking out and say " he thinks you look good could you please tell this old fart he is too old for you "..... talking about embarrassing.......Anyway we know it is not all we should worry about , and it is not , but when it is put in front of us we are like a dog getting a treat , drooling ,and all ...most of men just want their " scooby snack " so to say .
2007-03-23 17:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a hormonal thing, it's the way their made, nothing to do about it, except hope with maturity they will be able to overcome it.
Have you ever considered dressing more conservatiely so your girls aren't screaming "Hello! Look at me!" It's possible they can't help but look when your wearing something that kinda shows them off. I not sure if that the case, but men are so easily tempted.
I know that my big bust is one of my best features so I confident enough to play them to their best advantage, and If that's as far as a guys eyeballs get it doesn't bother me that much, their are lots of other facets to getting to know a guy. Atleast if they're looking they are attracted to you, and that always a good thing.
2007-03-23 17:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm no expert, I agree with the one who said it was hormonal. I can be talking to a guy who totally respects me and we can be having a very deep conversation, but I still catch his eyes slipping down to my chest every now and then. It's fun and kinda cute when they try to hide it. Don't take it personally.
2007-03-23 17:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by JenniFire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a hormonal thing plus the way society emphasizes it in adds and commercials every day. If a guy is really interested in you he will (after checking out all of you) pay attention to you and look you in the eyes while talking and listening to you...
2007-03-25 15:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Diggs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the man is mature enough he won't spend the evening staring at your bust, he will listen intently to you and communicate. An occasional glance is inevitable, especially if you have plenty to show off. Find someone who will look into your eyes and your soul, not just your bra.
2007-03-23 18:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mike R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im assuming you have a large chest... they would look if you had a small one too. IF you have a nice *** im sure they are loooking at that too when you walk away... men our visual creatures, woman are emotional.
2007-03-23 17:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While your talking, say "My eyes are up here." Or wear clothes that aren't revealing (Just in case you are).
2007-03-23 17:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by regina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shouldnt be mad that guys like ur boobs just because they usually look at them doesnt mean they always look at them
2007-03-23 16:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by Marco M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a guy thing thats what they do.i dont think it will ever change.
2007-03-23 17:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by scooby91099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋