Ok well my boy friend and I have been dating for 4 weeks and 5 days but we have not kissed.Well one of my friends in my homeroom overheard me talking bout wanting to kiss and he went to tell my boy...Well he came back and said that my boy wants to kiss me too....The thing is he hasnt really tryed...Should I make the first move or just wait...I dont want to ruin the relationship...But I REALLY want to kiss him!!!What should I do????
2007-03-23 16:50:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Funny Virginia!!! Maybe you should ask him why he hasnt kissed you. Maybe he wants to respect you, and not rush into things. Maybe he doesnt want to scare you away by making the first move. So communicate, commuincation is always the key. Talk to him. Ask questions!!!!
2007-03-23 16:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate_thunder_in_dallas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be cool, as a guy I can tell u wanna get with him. Its only natural, but just take a deep breath and relax first. Then ask yourself, is the time right (in ur case 4 weeks is about right), and maybe he hasn't tried for the same reason u haven't. Talk to him about this if u can, it really helps, telling him "I wanna take our relationship one step further" and stuff like that in a light hearted way, bu not sounding too flirty. And then, you guys r in the zone for kissing and watevr else...
2007-03-23 23:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by splintercellgod17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds pretty immature, I don't know how young you two are, but I mean if he's your boyfriend it seems kind of silly that you haven't kissed at all? If he doesn't want to kiss you back then well I say find a new boyfriend because either he's too afraid or he, not to sound harsh, isn't really your boyfriend..
2007-03-23 23:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer!
that is more than most people know!
If I did not know that I would be more concerned.
So time to give him a hug or two to get him used to touching .. then soon .. give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. and linger so that he gets the idea for a kiss on the lips .. or if he lingers quite a bit .. then you move in for that kiss and give him one.
2007-03-23 23:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was in the same situation once so i know how to handle this ok, trusy me. First you need to tell him face to face or on the phone that yew really want to kiss him and ask him if he wants to.Then if he says he wants to do it then ask him when and yall can make a time for when yall will do it. Then yall will be more comfotabale kissing him and talking to him if yew just ask him things staight out! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-24 00:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by horsecrazygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
I know the feeling....*giggle*
When you really want to move in for the kiss but the time just isnt "right", then dont. In order for it to be a decent kiss you both have to be comfortable and it should just...happen!
Sit by him more often, find reasons to get close to him....just things like that
2007-03-23 23:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Human 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and wait til he makes the first move, or else if you kiss him first he's going to think you're easy . Be a decent girl and wait.
2007-03-23 23:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥The Hon♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is nervous to make the first move, a lot of guys are. You can either make the first move yourself, or wait until the time is right, he might even kiss you first! :D
~*~StardustFaerie24~*~
2007-03-23 23:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by ★☆キザ☆★ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he'll do it! He wants to and he knows you want to. Give him at least another week. Some guys are just slow! Funny, huh? Hadn't you rather he kiss you? Yeah, sure you would. Have fun!! ;)
2007-03-23 23:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could sit back and wait...or you could be a little aggressive and give him just a little kiss on the cheek...BUT IF IS ENTIRELY UP TO YOU!!!
2007-03-23 23:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋