Courtney(bff) just brok up with Noah & I really think im in LUV. Its not fair at all.What do I do?
2007-03-23 16:44:59 · 16 answers · asked by labygirl879 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go there and that isn't love—its an attraction which could be based on your feeling for your ex. Life offers too much fun to waste on these kinds of entanglements..
2007-03-23 16:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to have some imput on this one but I just can't get with all the abreviations used in e-mail and test-messaging. O.K., I get that "bf" would be boyfriend. But what is a bff?
2007-03-23 16:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, does she still like him? does he luv you back? i've liked my bff's bf before and she was a good enough friend to let me have him but he went back to liking her and it was a big mess thats over now, but neways....you should tell her and if she's a real friend then she'll listen and try 2 understand things from your point of view.if its ok w/ her then there's no problem w/ u liking him. if she's not over him, the best thing would be to try to help her get over him.
2007-03-23 16:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by halfbreed filipino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak with the bff about her feelings towards him. unwritten law: NEVER MESS WITH A FRIEND'S EX UNLESS THEY ARE MARRIED WITH KIDS AND BEEN BROKEN UP TO THE POINT OF FORGETTING HIS NAME. if they just broke up their is always a chance they can get back together. Don't put yourself in that situation until you speak to your bff. a long serious talk is essential. personally my bff has been in my life longer then the dude i keep the friend. don't cross the line.
2007-03-23 16:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by amber/topaz1214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy ask Courtney if you can date him but give it sometime. But ask her and be truthfull, you don't want to loose a friend becasue relationships come and go but friendship last forever.
2007-03-23 16:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look this exceeded off to me a pair of weeks in the past with my 2 bffs. I cherished him alot and he ended up liiking my bff and that i assume that she cherished him yet in no way advised me and he asked her out and he or she suggested no becaus between me and him there became a history yet i did sense to blame. because you cant administration wat you sense. Im specific that she in no way meant to harm you . I advise she cant administration wat she feels. yet while she is conscious that its hurting then you definitely in step with hazard she is a foul pal. talk along with her and tell her which you dont think of your over him. and thatif shes extremely your bff to attend a jointly as. yet in step with hazard you shouldnt get of their way enable them to be happy wat are the possibilities that they'll final an eternity? in step with hazard after he dates her hell comprehend he likes you .
2016-11-28 02:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as she doesnt like him anymore she should be kool wit it so tell her. and i dont htink she still likes him cuz she broke uo wit him. so tell her and go for him. pplus if shes ur friend shell understand andhelp u out as much as possible. luv is powerful. bestz luck
2007-03-23 16:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok don't go straight to him. that will probs kill your friendship. wait it out a while maybe its not love, if it is then talk to ur bff 1st, then with her blessing go on with it.
2007-03-23 16:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by wintermag52 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if it's okay if you go out with her ex-boyfriend. Then, if she says yes, pursue him, and if not, just nurse your secret crush.
2007-03-23 16:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by bookworm11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away you dont want to lose your best friend over a guy unless you talk to her first. but does he feel the same way about you???
2007-03-23 16:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by jenperera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋