I am a pretty good looking guy who's pretty buff. As a result, most of the girls I end up with are pretty cute, but dead heads (especially blondes). I cant tell if they really are that dumb or they just pretend to be "funny" or "cute". It's annoying as hell.
I litterally find myself having philisophical conversations with old women who can actually talk like intellegent people. Is there any way to coax a girl into revealing her smarter side? Do some girls just pretend?
2007-03-23 16:19:32 · 16 answers · asked by krusty477 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some girls do pretend and indeed it is annoying. Tell a girl straight on that you like having real conversations about real life and not about pink poweder puff ponies. im sure some are insecure and think guys wont like them if they are smart, or deep or have thought provoking questions. I think you and I would get along pretty well judging from you opinions.
2007-03-23 16:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all blondes are dumb. But some girls do get mistaken when they hear a guy say a girl is "pretty cute". Most girls are just attention starving. And thats not ALWAYS a bad thing. The dumb ones probably see the REAL side of the girl you are currently going out with, when you see the fake side, the less attractive side. Try going for a different kind of girl There's so many to chose from why go for the ones that will leave you once they find a "hotter" guy? Try finding a girl who is beautiful, confident, smart, and funny. It sounds like there's no such thing but there is... there's not just one type of beautiful. Good Luck.
2007-03-23 16:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by OnARoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls get the idea that guys don't want to feel that their girlfriend is smarter than them, so the girls dumb themselves down to make guys feel better. I agree with you, it is so annoying to watch a perfectly intelligent girl make a fool of herself over a guy. I take pride in my smarts and never dumb myself down. I have enough blonde moments without pretending anyway lol.
2007-03-23 16:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty chicks are used to attention. Which means they don't have to try at all to get guys to follow them. So therefore, they can be socially lazy...or dumb in other words. They know that there'll be someone after them regardless.
But consider your sources, are you finding girls at the same usual places, the same age groups, the same friend-of-a-friend's parties? You might just be looking at the complete wrong crowd of women.
Keep looking. The good ones are out there.
2007-03-23 16:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by pancakes & hyrup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..They are dumb, why pretend? I hate pretending to be some dull airhead. Then men just wanna bang em. They are so dumb they wont know they are being banged. Then here comes something freakier if they miss their period I bet they won't know what that means..HeeeeHeeee. Good luck finding someone start.
2007-03-23 16:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by thatswhoIam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls just are that dumb.
Real smart girls wouldnt even pretend to be dumb.
2007-03-23 16:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe they do think its "cute/funny"...as for the blonde part, i guess some just act that way because its been made a trend......."ooooooooh, blondes r dumb and airheads"...that being said, they think that because theyre blong they have to act that way...i totally dont think hair color is the case; i knew some blondes that were intellegent, so i dont know what the deal is. if ur dating a girl that acts that way, just tell her to grow up, be herself, and stop trying to act cute...thats to say if she is
2007-03-23 16:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jeannette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to change where you are meeting these girls. I personally have never acted dumb, I think it's well...DUMB. Start off my having a casual conversation and kind of feel them out, if they sound immautre of stupid LEAVE, RUN lol.
2007-03-23 16:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, even if a girl is "book smart" and insists on dumbing herself down for guys, then she really wasn't as intelligent as she thought.
2007-03-23 16:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by lxl_serendipity_lxl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a woman has to pretend she is dumb, then she has no respect for you or herself. She may have great grades but she is still dumb:(
2007-03-23 16:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋