Hey, i'm 14 ready to go to High School next year. But.... there's only one problem....
I can't get a guy for some reason.
I mean, I said I'm gonna wait until i'm in college, and my school work comes first (Because I want to be a musician and get my masters or docterite degree) but, I don't know why guys don't wana ask me out. I mean, people say i'm not ugly. I think i'm ugly sometimes, (because of the guys). And I make alot of guy friends. And, when i'm with the public and i see myself in the mirror i dont like to look at myself. I sometimes don't think i'm ugly, but, I just don't know. And I also hate takin pictures too. My whole family has dates before (except for my little sister) They've been on a date younger than me, how come I can't get one. And I know that God is preparing me one, but, I just don't get it. Maybe I'll never find anybody.
2007-03-23 16:16:42 · 10 answers · asked by TempoBronze124 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry - a lot of people have gone through what you are right now. I had a crazy terrible time in Jr H.S. - with friends in general - that once I started High School, things totally changed! (no, i didn't sleep around - just the "friends" I had in jr. h.s. turned around saying that they wished things were different and were my friend during h.s.) = Just as an example! So it turned out I became a better person in High School because of Jr. H.S.
I wouldn't worry too much about dating in Jr. H.S right now - if the guys aren't showing interest in you there, there'll most likely be more to look forward to once you get to High School!
Good Luck!
2007-03-23 16:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it. you seem like a smart girl. for now, just concentrate on school and friends. when you get to high school it will be a totally different world. I didnt get my first boyfriend until I was a freshman and i know many people who still havent ever had one. Just because guys dont ask you out left and right doesnt mean youre ugly. Maybe you just havent 'clicked' with the right person yet, and being only 14 you have plenty of time left for that.
have FUN being single for now. good luck.
2007-03-23 23:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14 DON'T RUSH IT. You have plenty of time to live and find love. Get that education first. Most guys just want sex and once they get it they go and get it from someone else. Just look around you, baby momma drama, men living off of women, men with lots of children. Do you want that? Stop, Think, and Decide what's best for you. Right now it's not the sex and drama.
2007-03-23 23:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by kim45237 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl. I want to let ya know that i"m also 14, and have never had a boyfriend. Guys just don't seem to like me, even though I'm NOT ugly, i'm NOT socially impaired, and i'm NOT lesbian!!!
(yea. it's frustrating.)
My advice to YOU is, girl2girl, wait for the right guy. You may be feeling pressure from family, but hey, if he ain't good enuff, u don't date him. Maybe instead of desperately searching for a guy who'll ask you out, rest for awhile and let THEM find You. Good luck! XOXO
2007-03-23 23:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u just like me i want 2 wait a couple of guys asked me out but i said no because i don't think im ready. here i am in highschool never had a bf and i'm still scared but trust me u'll find someone. there's someone 4 everybody
2007-03-23 23:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by ATLZtaz300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think to hard on it....just be yourself..and also 14 is the starting age..if guys dont ask you yet, that's bcuz they're not ready yet....some guys just want to play around but others are serious about it and think twice or more before going to relationships......
and dont be to hard on yourself...if guys dont ask you, thats their problem not yours,k
2007-03-23 23:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by pkmtBasil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a few episodes of "Made" on MTV. You sound like some of the ppl on there. Not convinced you're pretty or ugly. You need to move past all that.
2007-03-23 23:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont worry about boys right now, just have fun with your gf's and studies, boys will only get you into trouble anyways , obviously the right one hasnt shown his face or youd seen it by now
2007-03-23 23:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same problem with me, except that I'm good-looking.
2007-03-23 23:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by zipps1986 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to show you want to go out with someone
2007-03-23 23:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Psycho Taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋